Aug. 5, 2025

(Ep 23) Jiu Jitsu Cowboy: Caleb Knepley of High Noon Lariat Jiu-Jitsu

(Ep 23) Jiu Jitsu Cowboy: Caleb Knepley of High Noon Lariat Jiu-Jitsu
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Welcome back to Fighters Drinking Coffee! In this exciting episode, we sit down with Caleb Knepley, a passionate coach and athlete from High Noon Jiu-Jitsu, who is soon to open Lariat Jiu-Jitsu in Pentagon City, Arlington, Virginia. Join us as we explore Caleb's journey into martial arts, his experiences coaching kids and adults, and the challenges and dreams of running his own gym.

Discover the vibrant and supportive jiu-jitsu community that Caleb cherishes, and how his fun, inclusive approach is shaping the training culture at both High Noon and his own upcoming establishment. From dealing with the emotions of young competitors to dreaming of a comprehensive training facility, Caleb shares his insights and aspirations with sincerity and humor.

Whether you're a seasoned martial artist or new to the sport, Caleb's story and philosophy offer inspiration and an engaging look into the life of a dedicated instructor. Tune in for an episode filled with camaraderie, laughter, and the pursuit of martial arts excellence.

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00:11 - Grand Opening Excitement

02:31 - Coaching Kids and Their Growth

04:43 - The Psychology of Young Competitors

06:32 - The Future of Lariat Jiu-Jitsu

11:06 - Transitioning from MMA to Jiu-Jitsu

13:04 - Caleb’s Journey into Jiu-Jitsu

13:52 - Competing and Training Experiences

15:46 - The Challenges of Competition

16:30 - Insights on Scoring in Jiu-Jitsu

17:35 - The Importance of Training Culture

19:46 - Building a Supportive Community

23:44 - Connecting with Other Gyms

25:25 - Setting the Vision for Lariat

27:23 - Fun and Lighthearted Training

28:45 - Preparing for Future Competitions

29:06 - Embracing the Journey Ahead

30:51 - Final Thoughts and Gratitude

45:44 - Wrapping Up and Looking Forward

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Welcome back to Fighters Drinking Coffee. Today we are with Caleb Knepley,

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a coach and athlete out of High Noon Jiu-Jitsu.

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Soon to be, actually when this episode drops, he will be the head instructor

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and owner of Lariat Jiu-Jitsu in Pentagon City, Arlington, Virginia. Caleb, welcome.

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Thanks guys, thanks for having me. Welcome! welcome uh

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so yeah so when this is coming out it'll

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be the grand opening of your gym in pentagon

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city so that'll be uh this will be dropping at 5 a.m on the same day so roughly

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12 hours later you're gonna be having your first class so that's pretty exciting

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by the time everyone wakes up they can sign up for caleb's gym yeah you're going

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in the show notes you will sign up immediately caleb's gym when you hear this

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and if you are gonna come please sign up

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i've had like 12 people tell me they're coming and i believe they're coming

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and then i opened the thing and it's like three people have signed up

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i'm worried that like i'm almost worried in a positive way that i'm

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gonna have like 40 people show up and i'll be like you're not gonna get ready

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for i don't know if i got space for you guys what um what are you using for

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signups and all that like a platform yeah you're a gym desk i do yeah so i was

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looking through different platforms um i've had like some experience with zen

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planner uh i just think like the navigation is a little funky,

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and then I found Gymdesk and like they have like it's pretty scalable for how

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many members you have so that they had like a pretty.

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Approachable starting point and it just like looks kind of nice you know there

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you go yeah so it's been they reach out to me I've seen like I've seen their

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promos and stuff like that I've never looked into it but it looks decent so

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yeah it's had everything so far,

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I ended up making a website out of something else their website maker was alright

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but you know easy way to like drop stuff in so it's been good I'm excited you know Good.

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Good. Good, ma'am. So...

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You know, uh, said high noon, you guys are doing, uh, so what's your scheduled

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high noon look like and how is that going to be against Lariat?

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Like what is the schedule going to be like? Are you coach still going to be

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coaching at high noon training there and then also running classes out of Lariat

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and where, where exactly is it?

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Yeah. So we tell people that right now, Larry, it's going to be inside of a,

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there's a CrossFit box called brazen fitness.

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Um, the owners of that, they were parents of some of the kids in our kids program.

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So that's how we got connected.

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So it's going to be in like the back half of their CrossFit box.

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I've got a bunch of rollout mats. We're going to roll them out Tuesday at 730, Friday at 630.

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And we'll have like a nice hour class. Should be pretty straightforward. Should be fun.

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Right now at high noon, I mainly coach the kids.

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I'll like help with the adults every once in a while if someone's out or something.

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But we've already got a pretty like stock set of coaches over there.

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So I was teaching the kids pretty much Monday through Thursday.

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Now tuesday i won't be there but every other day i'll still be there and you

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know i like coaching the kids it's fun um can be stressful but like watching

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them get better watching them go do tournaments the highs and the lows it's

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a it's a fun thing to be a part of oh yeah absolutely dude,

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any anytime like especially you're probably

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seeing a lot more progress there you get to see like the kids kind

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of go from brand new and not really knowing anything about jujitsu and then

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as they kind of climb up and you also you're watching them literally grow up

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too yeah it's pretty cool like the the skill side is cool i mean like you say

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that with adults too like the mental side is awesome like you get you get like

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some kids who go their first tournament and they just like,

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win or lose they just have like a terrible time because it was hard and

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they kind of they like losing it and then you talk to them they train some more

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they go to the next tournament they might even have like a worse tournament

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than they did before but they're like handling it so much better and i think

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that like that kind of grows really cool to see because you don't see that as

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much in adults sometimes you do but then sometimes like adults are salty win

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lose the whole time and they're competing, so it's like.

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Nice to see the psychology the differences

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yeah yeah you see uh especially you know

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you watch the kids compete and like the first couple times no matter

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what they say they're hurt right like oh yeah and then

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they're not really hurt they just don't know how to process the emotions of what

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just happened right and then yeah they you

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can literally watch them become battle-hardened essentially and like

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they're like yeah no i just won or i just lost no big

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deal i'll go do it again so that's pretty cool yeah the

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oh the hurt thing man when i first started teaching kids every single

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tear i went like full panic mode about i was like oh my god

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are you okay and now i'm almost like you're fine

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i think you're fine let's let's go again yeah like

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i've reached that point every step point you have to like it's almost

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like like mike said they they don't know how to process the

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emotion so you have to be like they're a little spiritual leader you're like you look

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at them you stay stoic you're like you're fine keep walking

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off you're good and then like two seconds they're like yeah i am fine and then.

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They just keep going yeah i mean i have two kids and

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like the number of times they're like something hurts daddy

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i'm like dude look at yourself check everything

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you're fine brush it off like does it

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really hurt and yeah so it's pretty it's an

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interesting thing with kids so yeah i

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mean and credit to like tim and my and like my especially because she was running the

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kids program before i got there like most of

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me learning how to deal with kids and their varying emotions came

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from her so a lot of credit goes to her for that one she's guided me

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through like quite a bit on um dealing with

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them like coaching the kids through a bunch of different stuff you guys

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can hear me but you probably can't scott is about to pour

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coffee for everyone they can't hear you um yeah this is the you guys don't normally

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get the coffee pouring portion of fighters drinking coffee it's usually pre-poured

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so this is a treat that you can't even see happen right now um.

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Yeah, let's get that. Thank you, man. ASMR. That was a nice pour.

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Coffee ASMR? Oh, my. Oh, yeah, I heard that one.

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Yeah. All right, yeah. Yeah, we'll need to clip that and put it at the beginning of every episode now.

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Yeah, so you're teaching kids at high noon. Yeah.

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So you're going to be having adult classes for now, primarily at Lariat.

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Yeah, only adult classes for now.

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I think two kids' programs would be a lot. And then also just,

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um, kids classes in like a CrossFit box rollout.

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It's just kind of a weird vibe, but like the end goal for Larry is like one,

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if they, if Brazen starts having more evenings available, I know they have other stuff going on.

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I think on other days right now, um, I would like to take more evenings so they

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can offer more classes, but the end goal is to get my own spot.

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Um, ideally I'd like to have jujitsu gym and like a fully loaded, like just gym lifting.

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Workout commercial gym type space in one that's kind of like the big that's

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the vision that's the big dream angle yeah for sure well that's good too because

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then people i mean that bang for your buck is great too from a um member standpoint

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right like they know that they have,

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they can basically just have one membership yeah rather than having to juggle

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a couple because that's pretty tough too yeah i mean i do that now but i'm also

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like you know i'm privileged that i teach and instruct at high noon so i really

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don't have to worry about the,

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the lifting membership but like i yeah i

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know plenty of people who have both and it just seems like

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it's a lot to manage oh yeah i bet it

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is especially like you have a lot less um

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you have a lot less like maintenance involved with

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the jujitsu gym compared to like a lifting

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gym you don't have like equipment that fails the

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same way i mean like you still have stuff you have to replace and repair but

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like it's a vastly different animal in terms of.

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Uh you know stuff yeah people just

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like breaking machines and throwing things everywhere where like

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yeah jiu-jitsu gym is just like the mats and

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the walls yeah so you're going to start off with the two

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evening classes two evening class fill that out let it

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like let it the the membership grow

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up then we're looking for more slots like you said yeah eventually get

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to where um you're able to shop around

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find a good location for what you're doing one day also pack

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that in with the yeah strength and conditioning yeah so it's probably

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going to be fill these classes out if more spots open

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up at brazen get some more classes in there eventually get

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my own spot jujitsu first obviously and then probably slowly drop

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like pieces of weight training equipment in there

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until we have like a full full gym do you

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want to keep it like mostly jujitsu do you want to add in

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some other like mma elements to it what are you thinking yeah i

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don't know um i'll probably never have an

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mma fight team i just it's just like those

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mike drop yes those guys because when

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i met you you were still fighting i was a fighter yeah you're a

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fighter yeah um yeah for a while i like started mma

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with mma first realistically i did uh and like

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three kickboxing fights four mma fights and then i

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was lined up for an amateur title and it was also like during covid so like.

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Uh promotions were like showing up and then getting shut down immediately so

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a bunch of us prepped like probably for like four or five fights that like the

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week out they were like oh sorry guys kind of is tough yeah um but i was set

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up for like an amateur title i did one training session and i was like yeah

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i don't think i care about this anymore.

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Um you're fired up about jiu-jitsu yeah i was having a ton

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of fun with jiu-jitsu um just got a little tired of like

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getting hit in the head tell me about it and

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like used to fight too yeah and like i you know in fair amateur

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mma i'd never even like lost but it's just like the prep

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and the training was just well and then like you said like

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you're trying to go to book a fight and like you're you're doing all this work the

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trip you're doing the prep you're doing the training you're getting hit

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in the head there's like all the stress and shit that comes with all of

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that plus the impending date that you're preparing for and it

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drops out from underneath you because you know covid whatever like

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yeah it's the fight stops like well how many how many

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camps did you have that did not result in the fight too dude

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i don't know because that's what got me out of it yeah even like

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kickboxing i had like two or three other fights lined

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up that didn't fall through i remember my first kickboxing fight i ended up getting a

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different opponent when i weighed in and they

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were just like we got this guy and like luckily it turned out okay like

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i won but i was like this could be terrible what's that's

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like it's also super not professional no

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no so crazy and this area is better

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than other like i've i cornered a fight in pennsylvania

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and like the rule set's insane like there

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was like no striking on the ground you're wearing shin guards and they're like everyone

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in the back was literally like yeah if you get a takedown even if you get beat

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up on the feet you're gonna win the fight and i was like what and they're like

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that's just how that's just how the judges are in pa we were like oh they love

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wrestling okay sounds like i should go for takedown yeah like all right um but

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i'll probably get some striking in there i still like striking i actually.

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There's a couple of striking classes that's kind of just turned to like a little

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kickboxing club with me and like two or three other dudes at high noon that

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i teach a couple times a week um.

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But at some point i probably end up just getting someone else to teach it just

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because i'd i'd almost rather just take the class you know um because i still

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like striking i just like not invested nearly as much time into like studying

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it and like re-watching fights and striking techniques and Muay Thai, like I used to be like,

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I'm pretty much all jujitsu and the free time that I spend on that kind of stuff.

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But some kickboxing in there eventually. I don't know about,

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it may be like an MMA class or two.

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I just, I don't think I could do the full MMA fighter thing.

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Like being a coach for those guys just seems like probably a bit more than I

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would want to deal with. It's a lot of work. Yeah.

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I corner a lot of MMA fights with, I mean, and like Charles did just go at DMA. He runs all that.

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So it's, he loves, he loves MMA. It's like his passion.

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I'm like more of a role player in that world, which I think is a good fit for me.

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I mean, i like doing it i have fun with those guys and those and the dudes

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in our team who are the guys at dma who are on that team they

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work super hard so it's like it's easy to go in and kind of like help them

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because it's like they work hard yeah i like doing that um but

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dude it's a lot of effort man i mean you got the weight cutting is tough

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oh man weight cutting is i'm off man i'm like a i

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float between like 185 and 189 now i thought at 145 yeah that's wild i'm like

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six feet tall yeah yeah i was dying well even 155 for you would be wild still

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yeah but i'm like kind of small for 155 it's crazy i stood some next some other

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like 55 or 55ers and i was like do you know caldoon.

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Um maybe he wild man bearded you probably

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probably i've probably seen him yeah he's he's not

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as tall as you but he's 190 as well like

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when he's fully fed yeah um then he fights 155

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and he's like he'll he'll talk to me he'll be

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like all right man like i think i'm gonna fight seven or

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eight weeks so i'm gonna try to get to like the high 70s

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low 80s yeah that would right now but like that's a

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dude it's like and again let me know he's fully committed

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to mma like he's he loves doing it so it's this is

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a labor of love that he's totally fine doing yeah um

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but you need that like commitment to want to do it dude and i like this is this

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is definitely the wrong way to do this but when i started doing mma i like i

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didn't realize this because i was a personal trainer before that i just like

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stopped lifting weights because i was so focused on like being light enough

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to get down to 45 i would like look at old pictures of me um back when i was

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fighting I look like a twig. I was like, what?

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How was I fighting like grown men looking like this? It's wild.

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But, okay, so I'm going to do some Caleb background, right? So I met Caleb.

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He swung through one of our DMA training sessions. I probably joined the pandemic.

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Do you remember what that was? Yeah, it was like right after.

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Right after. It was like me, you, Sam, Joey came through. Oh,

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yeah. Remember that? Yeah, dude.

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Yeah, Joey's in the mix. I haven't seen him in a while, but whatever.

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But anyways, like, so I want to say that was kind of a, I don't know.

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You can tell me, but it seemed like maybe that was around the time when you

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were like, yeah, I think I'm going to start doing a little more jiu-jitsu.

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Yeah. You went over to high noon. Tell us about like that, like you transitioned.

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You've been with that team for a couple of years now. Yeah, like a little over two years now.

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So like I'd known him for a long time because I used to go to their like open mats a lot.

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And then, so what ended up happening is at the other gym I was at,

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at Kaizen, I ended up like,

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at least at one of the locations, kind of just running the jiu-jitsu program.

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And I wasn't getting a whole lot of training myself.

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And I started doing these Sunday open mats. And Nate Marsh, Fairfax High School

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wrestling coach, teaches wrestling at high noon, started coming to him.

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I don't know why. He just kind of started showing up. And we started chatting.

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We started, like, rock climbing together.

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And, like, you know, he slowly kind of convinced me. Because I had already kind

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of thought about it. In fact, so, like, I was always coaching at Kaizen.

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But for a brief time, I went and just got, like, a normal job.

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I was working at, like, a data center in Ashburn.

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Um and right as i quit that to like work at kaizen a little bit more tim and

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messaged me at the same time because i guess that was when he was like planning

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the high nude expansion and asked me if i wanted to work for him and i was like

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i can't right now i already committed to something else

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and then like six months later nate's like get your ass over let's get over

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there yeah and then um talked to maya i started teaching the kids a little bit

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um yeah so i started teaching the kids.

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Towards the end of like that year uh competed a couple

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times under tim i'd never done any like big tournaments and then

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so i decided to just jump into an adcc open and see what would happen which

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was cool that was fun um competing at like 11 30

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a night is a little rough but dude i was which one was that

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that was or that was one of the orlandos i went well i didn't go to it but um

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yeah those adcc when they started doing the opens when they kind of expanded

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from just doing trials to say now they're doing regional opens get more people

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experience with the rule set make some money and then yeah get people familiar

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with that for trials and all that kind of i just developed,

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some more talent in that space so it makes sense for them

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to do that when they first started doing those we sent a

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couple guys up to new jersey because they had a new jersey one

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the atlantic city one did you do that dude i got my foot broken

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in that one and like the one time 1 a.m yeah like so the dude the dude got me

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all right fair enough but i think i would have tapped 15 seconds earlier if

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it was three hours before i'm in like that stupid reverse closed guard like

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a block thing and i'm like kind of staring at it and i was like am i caught

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but that's because I'm like half asleep.

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You're like delirious. And then when I go to tap, my foot just like explodes.

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And I was like, come on. But yes, this is the point, right?

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Like they got so many people who wanted to do these things, the demand to go

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to these ADCC tournaments.

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Again, that's pretty cool. They were getting so like, I guess overbooked.

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I don't know what else to call it. Yeah.

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They had like, when Smooth Comp or whatever spit out the match times, they were showing like.

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Like, Andrea went, and I think she fought it. Like, I remember I was,

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like, in my bed looking at my phone because it was, like, 11.45,

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and I was like, damn, dog. I want to go to bed. But I'm watching her match.

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I was like, this is wild as hell. They were going all night.

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They also, like, I just, I think due to the number of people,

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like, they just weren't ready to deal with, like, the technical difficulties.

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So Orlando was crazy because there's, like, a union there, and,

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like, people aren't allowed to work past a certain number of hours.

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So they kicked everyone out of the venue for an hour, which delayed everything for a bunch of time.

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Atlantic City, I remember I woke up in the morning. It said my first match was at 3 p.m.

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I took a nap i woke back up all adult matches

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were just gone like they just weren't there and then

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eventually i went at like 9 p.m like it's just like they're

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having like computer crap like i didn't think they weren't ready to

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like deal with the stuff that's probably inevitably going to happen like you

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know credit to ibjjf it's like you got to give them credit sometimes it's organized

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like i had never done one i went to pans and they're like you're on at 9 a.m

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and i was on at 9 a.m yeah ibjjf is by far like the most on time of all of them

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and there's something to that That's the only thing.

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Yeah, well, yeah. I mean, look, my first tournament, like. He goes,

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that's the only thing I like about it. Look.

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Look, I have a high noon brown belt rash guard. Yes. The entire back square is brown.

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Lady at the front's like, you're good to go. The guy walking me out is like, you're good to go.

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Wasn't even the ref at my mat. Some dude randomly runs out from like a table

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and he's like, I don't know about this rash guard. I was like, what do you mean?

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Dude, the head table interference for uniform stuff is the main thing that I

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don't like. Like that is one of the worst things.

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It's just like, dude, he made it past, they made it past uniform.

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What are we doing? You got to just allow it at this point.

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He points at the all brown square and he's like, I don't think there's enough

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brown. And I was like, what are you talking about?

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Should I go shirtless? so I had to sprint out buy like a Kings whatever which

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alright it's a nice rash guard fair enough that dude gets a kick back that one

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guy there's no way there's no way he doesn't.

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But yeah but yeah so yeah I started doing it long tangent there I started doing the ADCC tournaments,

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and yeah I just started doing a bunch of like way harder stuff like back when I got my brown belt.

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I still don't think I was like actually ready to be a brown belt and like classic

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imposter syndrome it was dude it was a weird promotion though like.

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Take the brown belt man tim's gonna give you a brown belt.

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You take no no i got the brown belt elsewhere yeah i.

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Joined high noon after anything that tim and my and them

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give me i you accept yeah i will accept yeah but i'm

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like over there i'm not even training at this point you should i'm like

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just teaching and then like the guy who's like the head black

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belt has like not even been there for like two years and he shows

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up and they give me the brown belt and he's just like i heard you've been

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doing good and that was like the whole thing and i was like all right

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sick um but then like yeah so

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huge imposter syndrome sit in so i just didn't compete at brown

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belt like at all and then i jumped in at high noon and i like mentioned kind

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of wanting to do it and tim was like well let's do

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it so yeah i've been been doing a lot of competing um

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still gonna do some competing is be interesting to see how that turns out

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while running my own spot but you know you'll be good if

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anything i get like super stressed out competing and if

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that's the only thing that's on my mind so maybe being able to do all this i'll just

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roll up to a tournament and just be like grumpy about it and I'll do really well because

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I won't be like stressed out about it yeah I'm usually

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more stressed out coaching than competing now because like

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I get all the stress out watching all of the like all

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my athletes compete so like I'm like coaching everyone and I'm like

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way more stressed about that and it's my turn like yeah it's fine yeah

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um honestly if I'm being honest I think most of the stress just

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comes from all that like bs like supposed to be a brown but like whatever like

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that I ran in that Orlando tournament I didn't even know who he was I ran to

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Michael Sains who at the time was like a blue or purple belt and I was and then

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he beat me and I was like dang and then I like looked him up and I was like

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well yeah okay I see what's going on yeah give yourself a break.

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Yeah, so one of the, okay, so I want to talk to you about what you've liked

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the most, how you've developed since you went over to High Noon.

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Tim is a buddy of mine. Yeah. I've chained with him a bunch of times. He's a great guy.

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You guys seem like you have an awesome team, too. Every time I go around,

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I like seeing what I see. Just the environment, the community is really cool to see.

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There's a lot of jiu-jitsu in our area, right? Yeah. A ton.

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Yeah. but there's there's there's not a ton of um what would you say i guess like competitor,

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present teams yeah there there are but like there's there's

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not a lot of places that are like mainly made

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up of like they have a huge portion of the

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uh school makeup like the huge portions

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quote unquote it's interesting right because like i

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don't know i'll ask you guys i don't know if like do we have a perception of huge

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culture at dma and does that does it look like that uh that's

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what it looks like to me yeah you guys look like it's okay so we

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do have a lot of competitors i guess big presence might be that

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might be but yeah that's interesting in the competition by the

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way dude like as a guy who's going into like owning a in an academy um it's

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um it's relatively when you look at like the the body of people who come in

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most people aren't competitors yeah well that kind of works out because to be

00:21:02.680 --> 00:21:06.260
honest with you like i like competing um well i do and i don't you know what

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i mean like every time you've been doing it every time Yeah,

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but then every time I sign up, I'm like, why am I doing this? Yeah, like...

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I think down the road, I'll probably like have some competitor focus,

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but that's really not the, I just think jujitsu is like awesome.

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Um, and I think like coming from like the fitness background,

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like there's like way too many people not to trash like Goggins and Jocko who

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are like, you got to suffer and it sucks. And I'm like, you can suffer and it's still fun.

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Like I've like, like me and Nate Marsh have had just like some insane rounds

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that we've dubbed like wars.

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Yeah. Just, we're not, just, we're just like being idiots. Like we're not holding any position.

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We're just trying to like scramble as hard as humanly possible um and i feel

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awful at the end of that but i was like man that was a blast you know i mean

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like i like i think the perception around like hard work has to like be like

00:21:52.900 --> 00:21:56.740
miserable kind of sucks so i'd rather just like that's kind of the focus for

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lariat to start it's just like these classes are gonna be hard but.

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We're gonna be like goofy and have fun too like i just don't want everyone to come in and be like,

00:22:03.200 --> 00:22:06.040
well and so that's that's the thing with the competitor thing right like i

00:22:06.040 --> 00:22:08.800
i i i like your gratitude on

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all of it because like i guess for us it sort of happened naturally

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yeah we didn't force any of that like just people

00:22:15.520 --> 00:22:18.540
wanted to do it yeah people wanted to compete there were guys competing i

00:22:18.540 --> 00:22:21.360
was competing like you know we had enough i think folks doing it

00:22:21.360 --> 00:22:24.100
the others were like maybe i want to do that too so i think it kind of

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happening naturally is like a it's a good way to do it

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like let people like opt in to wanting to

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do that but like the culture can be what you just said which is

00:22:32.640 --> 00:22:35.520
a good environment for sort of like choose your adventure yeah

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and to the person coming in yeah sometimes sometimes that

00:22:38.320 --> 00:22:41.960
too like one person coming in in

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or like a couple people that are just

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competition minded like people that you get people that were competitive you

00:22:51.000 --> 00:22:54.160
know they were wrestlers in college or things like that those people come into

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the gym and they just kind of naturally gravitate towards it and then other

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people start to kind of congregate into that and like you said, it naturally occurs.

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Like it doesn't, um, you don't have to create a competition focus the.

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Competitors will naturally create that environment for

00:23:11.499 --> 00:23:14.499
themselves yeah agreed yeah um you

00:23:14.499 --> 00:23:18.339
know dude high noon's funny i swear like eight eight

00:23:18.339 --> 00:23:21.739
percent of the people who are like competitor level competed high noon like

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the room is rough every single day and then like we just like can't get half

00:23:26.719 --> 00:23:31.419
of them to compete like it's kind of insane um but yeah i mean i got the same

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act like because tim's whole thing is like whistle while you work like me and

00:23:35.799 --> 00:23:38.039
tim talk crazy shit to each other,

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Even if we're not rolling with like mid comp class, I'll be rolling with someone,

00:23:41.839 --> 00:23:44.199
he's rolling with someone else and we're talking shit like across the room.

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Like that's the kind of vibe I like because it's like, what's the,

00:23:47.099 --> 00:23:48.779
what's the point of being like super mid?

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Like I've had bad days obviously, but that's not because like I didn't think training was fun.

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It's because like I either had a bad day or I got my ass kicked really bad and

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I was like, that kind of sucked.

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But like, what's the point of being miserable while you're doing something that

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is like super physically hard, you know?

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I like that. Well, okay. Let's talk about that. Okay.

00:24:04.819 --> 00:24:08.659
Tell me more. tell me more about the uh because as from

00:24:08.659 --> 00:24:12.059
an observer's perspective and like i've like i said i've known you but you have

00:24:12.059 --> 00:24:14.539
begun competing like you've you've developed a ton man you've been successful

00:24:14.539 --> 00:24:17.759
in competitions yeah and it's you've been in this community where that's like

00:24:17.759 --> 00:24:23.159
that's the culture yeah yeah man um yeah i don't know i like um i think like

00:24:23.159 --> 00:24:25.999
the like the vibe at high noon is like really special i think that's really

00:24:25.999 --> 00:24:27.179
why i like stuck there like there's,

00:24:27.979 --> 00:24:30.999
a lot of the gyms in the area have like really good dudes like

00:24:30.999 --> 00:24:33.679
like muhammad ali has a gym like 10 minutes from high

00:24:33.679 --> 00:24:36.419
noon you know what i mean but like the the vibe at high noon and like

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just the the culture there and just like the

00:24:39.739 --> 00:24:43.019
people that have like gravitated towards that i've just found like very appealing

00:24:43.019 --> 00:24:45.779
like i spent a bunch of time with them i made a bunch of ton like a ton of like

00:24:45.779 --> 00:24:49.119
really close friends uh my fiance's made friends with people she doesn't even

00:24:49.119 --> 00:24:53.339
train and she's like close friends with a bunch of people there um i just like

00:24:53.339 --> 00:24:57.679
hope i can kind of replicate that vibe at lariat same way just because that's

00:24:57.679 --> 00:25:02.059
the the kind of place i want that's like kind of always even when I was like a personal trainer,

00:25:02.179 --> 00:25:05.179
I went in my own gym where I kind of set the rules and everyone just kind of

00:25:05.179 --> 00:25:08.179
have a good time while also doing something hard and that's like good for you.

00:25:08.339 --> 00:25:09.959
You know, that's the culture, man. It's good culture.

00:25:10.339 --> 00:25:12.319
Don't be afraid to protect that culture. You're going to have to.

00:25:12.319 --> 00:25:16.039
No. Yeah. I've, yeah, we've had to kick people out. I'm sure you guys have to.

00:25:16.319 --> 00:25:20.319
Yeah. And like, you know, that's, um, that's the stuff I'm the most like worried about, I guess.

00:25:20.399 --> 00:25:22.979
Cause I'm like, not the most like assertive person, but you know,

00:25:23.019 --> 00:25:24.719
it is what it is. I'll do, I'll do what I got to do.

00:25:25.259 --> 00:25:29.539
I'm sure when it's my business on the line I'll be like alright dude that's right.

00:25:30.819 --> 00:25:36.319
Yeah you know I tend to forget that I'm like not small and have fought and like,

00:25:37.019 --> 00:25:41.919
probably gonna be fine because I'm just always rolling with dudes who can like

00:25:41.919 --> 00:25:44.199
beat the shit out of me so I'm just like am I.

00:25:45.519 --> 00:25:49.539
You're set to like yo let's make this fun yeah so whenever it's a gear shift

00:25:49.539 --> 00:25:50.699
whenever someone comes in there

00:25:50.699 --> 00:25:54.359
and like kind of messes that up I'm like bro don't make me do this on.

00:25:54.699 --> 00:25:56.699
Nothing is worse than when you're like.

00:25:57.575 --> 00:25:59.475
You've been out for a little bit and you come back and you're like,

00:25:59.575 --> 00:26:03.935
I can't wait to train. And then just like some like asshole shows up at an open

00:26:03.935 --> 00:26:07.295
mat and you're like, bro, I thought, I thought today was going to be going to

00:26:07.295 --> 00:26:08.875
make me regular. Now we got to deal with this.

00:26:09.675 --> 00:26:13.415
Yeah. Yeah. Uh, yeah. I'm like overall, I'm like really excited.

00:26:13.635 --> 00:26:18.195
Uh, I'm like beyond grateful for everything like Tim and Maya especially have done for me.

00:26:18.475 --> 00:26:21.575
Um, more than I could. I mean, I came to them telling them that like,

00:26:21.675 --> 00:26:23.715
I was probably going to open my own gym at some point. Like that was my goal.

00:26:23.815 --> 00:26:24.715
And they were like, all right, cool.

00:26:24.855 --> 00:26:27.615
So we'll focus on that as you're here, which i think is

00:26:27.615 --> 00:26:30.775
awesome because they didn't really know me back then you know they like knew me

00:26:30.775 --> 00:26:34.435
kind of because i showed up at open mats but they really like uh offered a

00:26:34.435 --> 00:26:37.335
helping hand like i can't shout them out enough you know yeah shout them out yeah

00:26:37.335 --> 00:26:40.815
shout them out more tim and maya tim and maya tim and maya

00:26:40.815 --> 00:26:43.675
shout out to tim and maya well and that that's cool

00:26:43.675 --> 00:26:46.715
too i mean it's good having people that want to

00:26:46.715 --> 00:26:49.595
facilitate your growth and not just have you as a growth

00:26:49.595 --> 00:26:52.815
tool for themselves i mean obviously they want to be successful but

00:26:52.815 --> 00:26:55.635
knowing that like hey you can help us be successful but

00:26:55.635 --> 00:26:58.615
we want you to succeed in whatever realm you want to be successful

00:26:58.615 --> 00:27:01.255
in as well like that's always good having those people in

00:27:01.255 --> 00:27:04.635
your corner so and that's the way to do it too like you you were explicit

00:27:04.635 --> 00:27:07.695
you're like yo this is here are my goals and they were like yo man let's do

00:27:07.695 --> 00:27:10.895
it because i can tell you from personal experience i've known people who have

00:27:10.895 --> 00:27:14.575
not done that it happens all the time which is like it's such a weird way to

00:27:14.575 --> 00:27:17.695
handle it yeah like you show up and you're like all right yeah yeah like i'm

00:27:17.695 --> 00:27:21.375
gonna ski i'm gonna stab everyone in the back Like the moment I'm ready.

00:27:21.555 --> 00:27:23.355
Let's burn as many bridges as possible. Why? Like.

00:27:23.815 --> 00:27:25.275
It's silly. It's so weird. It's

00:27:25.275 --> 00:27:28.555
like a weird competitor mindset where I'm like, dude, jujitsu is like.

00:27:29.317 --> 00:27:32.417
I guess it's not as niche anymore, but I'm like, it's niche enough that like,

00:27:32.537 --> 00:27:37.537
you'll probably, there'll be enough people to like populate your gym, dude. It's okay.

00:27:38.177 --> 00:27:42.237
Yeah. It's made it enough into the mainstream that you can find people.

00:27:42.497 --> 00:27:46.797
But, uh, yeah, I mean like that is, it is super like skeevy to do that too.

00:27:46.957 --> 00:27:52.157
Cause to like come in and just not tell anyone that you're planning on opening a gym.

00:27:52.317 --> 00:27:57.797
Like that's cause, and then, and then act like the other person's the weirdo for not,

00:27:57.797 --> 00:28:00.477
not supporting that it's like dude i didn't know you

00:28:00.477 --> 00:28:03.257
were going to do this and people talk right so like there's

00:28:03.257 --> 00:28:05.997
enough like like you won like you said there's enough people your business can

00:28:05.997 --> 00:28:09.537
succeed yeah for sure but that but i flipping

00:28:09.537 --> 00:28:12.497
it around it's also the community of like the like the the

00:28:12.497 --> 00:28:15.977
the leaders in the community the people who own businesses like they all talk

00:28:15.977 --> 00:28:20.617
too so like your reputation will get around i don't own a business i'm not like

00:28:20.617 --> 00:28:25.297
a leader i guess i own a business you do i do now and you are but like but like

00:28:25.297 --> 00:28:29.457
i hear about this stuff you know what i mean and I like try to stay out of like

00:28:29.457 --> 00:28:31.877
bullshit, like cross gym drama as much as I can.

00:28:31.977 --> 00:28:35.317
So it's like, dude, like I'm not saying you have to like just get along with

00:28:35.317 --> 00:28:39.377
everybody, but like, there's no reason you can't be like cordial and cool, man. Like, why not?

00:28:39.497 --> 00:28:43.397
Like, yeah, you're, you're walking around and like you're visiting one gym and

00:28:43.397 --> 00:28:45.677
like, well, you can't talk to these guys at this gym.

00:28:45.757 --> 00:28:49.677
Cause I don't, if you want to come train, it's like, dude, like I don't want to be involved in this.

00:28:50.717 --> 00:28:53.777
That is the cool thing. Like I've like, there are gyms in this area that like

00:28:53.777 --> 00:28:55.977
are kind of like that, but for the most part, not really like,

00:28:56.237 --> 00:28:57.237
you know, Like, you're cool with Tim.

00:28:57.417 --> 00:28:59.897
Tim's really cool with Sean from Silverback. Like, we go and train there sometimes.

00:28:59.957 --> 00:29:00.897
They come and train with us.

00:29:01.537 --> 00:29:03.937
Like, Cam rolls in on Sundays a bunch. We train with him real hard.

00:29:04.057 --> 00:29:05.997
It's like, just... That's the culture.

00:29:06.117 --> 00:29:09.657
Also, why not? And then, like, you know, look, if we fight each other in a... No, hold on, not fight.

00:29:10.457 --> 00:29:13.597
I hate... Oh, you said it. No, no, no, no, no. No, no, no.

00:29:14.677 --> 00:29:17.477
But, like, yeah, if we have a match, like, all right. Big deal.

00:29:17.577 --> 00:29:20.577
Cool. And then if you beat me, I'll probably just go way too hard with you next

00:29:20.577 --> 00:29:22.237
time you show up in the room. Like, it is what it is.

00:29:23.697 --> 00:29:27.057
Yeah like it's just not that big a deal and then like we're always

00:29:27.057 --> 00:29:29.937
gonna like cheer for each other when we're at like big tournaments anyway so like

00:29:29.937 --> 00:29:32.697
might as well just train together you know thousand percent yeah but again

00:29:32.697 --> 00:29:36.377
like credit to tim again that's kind of always been his attitude like what's

00:29:36.377 --> 00:29:40.377
the point even like um like i've got to stand standard guys have never made

00:29:40.377 --> 00:29:43.677
me pay to go and train there you know like i just show up i train everyone's

00:29:43.677 --> 00:29:48.197
cool they value that too they value people coming to visit yeah and they like

00:29:48.197 --> 00:29:50.097
they want to be able to go visit other people too Yeah.

00:29:50.317 --> 00:29:52.477
So like, yeah, it's, yeah, it's good leadership.

00:29:53.037 --> 00:29:56.477
Ultimately it makes everybody better. Like you're not going to get better just

00:29:56.477 --> 00:29:59.037
training with the same people every day.

00:29:59.357 --> 00:30:02.097
I mean, you'll still, you'll get better, but you're not gonna get quite as good

00:30:02.097 --> 00:30:05.497
when, as seeing all these different looks and training with other people.

00:30:05.717 --> 00:30:09.677
And you know, sometimes man, it's nice to go with like other people around your

00:30:09.677 --> 00:30:11.517
skill level that don't train with you every day.

00:30:11.677 --> 00:30:14.817
Cause then otherwise you get like people who are like newer than you or like,

00:30:15.137 --> 00:30:16.917
you know, probably a little bit low skill level. They start catching you and

00:30:16.917 --> 00:30:19.097
stuff cause they know everything you do. And then you're sitting there and you're like.

00:30:21.291 --> 00:30:24.171
They're getting better. And you're showing them all your moves.

00:30:24.411 --> 00:30:27.111
Yeah, dude. So it's like, they should get better. We were doing a bunch of one-minute

00:30:27.111 --> 00:30:30.891
goes the other day, and it was me and Tim, and we had a bunch of blue belts

00:30:30.891 --> 00:30:33.191
in the group, and they all tried to kill me.

00:30:34.411 --> 00:30:37.531
And I had just done rounds with two of them before, and they were not going.

00:30:37.711 --> 00:30:40.411
I didn't have nearly as much of a problem. And then all of a sudden,

00:30:40.491 --> 00:30:42.411
they're behind me. I was taking my back, and I was like, guys,

00:30:42.471 --> 00:30:44.071
guys, guys, guys, you're supposed to let me win.

00:30:44.131 --> 00:30:47.051
What's going on? Yeah, what's going on? When you have a target on your back. Yeah.

00:30:47.351 --> 00:30:51.611
That comes with like a... and your target might get bigger, buddy. Yeah, here we go.

00:30:51.911 --> 00:30:55.731
It's about to get bigger. I was running an open mat the other day and like the

00:30:55.731 --> 00:30:59.531
teenagers decided to shark tank me. I was like, what the fuck is happening?

00:31:00.351 --> 00:31:02.431
Yeah, but that's kind of fun because you're like, let's see how many teenagers

00:31:02.431 --> 00:31:03.991
are going to kill in eight minutes. Oh, dude.

00:31:04.571 --> 00:31:08.711
Turns out I can kill a lot of teenagers. I love rolling with the teenagers that

00:31:08.711 --> 00:31:12.491
are like really good because like they might even have some better technical

00:31:12.491 --> 00:31:15.111
skills than me and then I'm just way stronger. So I'm like, hey,

00:31:15.771 --> 00:31:17.451
I'm an adult. You're going to stop moving.

00:31:17.731 --> 00:31:20.731
Child. not gonna sweep me child yeah i am

00:31:20.731 --> 00:31:23.451
the adult in the room i had the first time i rolled with one

00:31:23.451 --> 00:31:26.391
of them i had one of them logan um he like

00:31:26.391 --> 00:31:30.011
foot swept me as i was trying to throw him and i was like what but then as i

00:31:30.011 --> 00:31:32.831
fell i was like hold on and i just sat up and turned him over because i was

00:31:32.831 --> 00:31:37.171
like no no no no no that was nice but i'm not i'm not letting this happen you

00:31:37.171 --> 00:31:41.651
gotta you gotta give him a little i am a grown ass i'm a grown ass man first

00:31:41.651 --> 00:31:44.551
you take care of business and you're That was actually really good. I was like, damn.

00:31:44.971 --> 00:31:47.211
But no. Also bad, but also good.

00:31:48.371 --> 00:31:51.571
Oh, man. Yeah, man. Yeah, man. This is just fun.

00:31:51.891 --> 00:31:55.591
So I'm excited to have my own spot. It is a little bittersweet,

00:31:55.591 --> 00:31:58.951
even having one less day teaching the kids at high noon, just because it's become

00:31:58.951 --> 00:32:00.391
such a big part of my life.

00:32:00.891 --> 00:32:03.591
I'm at every tournament coaching them. I'll probably still be there.

00:32:03.591 --> 00:32:05.511
Yeah. I'll still be at every tournament coaching them.

00:32:06.811 --> 00:32:11.051
Yeah, it's exciting, but you know. It's exciting. And they'll be right there.

00:32:11.331 --> 00:32:14.071
Yeah, it's like a few minutes. there you'll i mean you're gonna want to you're gonna want to like pop

00:32:14.071 --> 00:32:16.871
over there and be like what's going on at high noon you're gonna pop over there and say what

00:32:16.871 --> 00:32:19.571
up train yeah and i mean our goal is to

00:32:19.571 --> 00:32:22.451
like still be connected in like some way have people from high

00:32:22.451 --> 00:32:25.451
noon come visit lariat have lariat come visit high noon and

00:32:25.451 --> 00:32:28.351
for i think for for those who don't know okay let's talk

00:32:28.351 --> 00:32:31.311
about the word lariat because that's a cowboy hat right all

00:32:31.311 --> 00:32:34.151
right no so it's um it's the rope you use to lasso excuse

00:32:34.151 --> 00:32:37.211
me yeah there you go i had to look this up because lasso i

00:32:37.211 --> 00:32:40.091
guess people call it a lasso but lasso's like the action yes

00:32:40.091 --> 00:32:42.791
the action so lariat's like the actual rope and i just i

00:32:42.791 --> 00:32:45.471
wanted it to be like somewhat related to the

00:32:45.471 --> 00:32:48.191
western although technically high noon is from like a

00:32:48.191 --> 00:32:51.851
movie i just don't remember what movie well i i associate it with like i mean

00:32:51.851 --> 00:32:55.371
it's like a cow yeah they draw at high noon they shoot each other yeah so like

00:32:55.371 --> 00:32:59.691
we have like a dead i know that they fought i think there is a movie called

00:32:59.691 --> 00:33:02.751
high noon it might even be that movie um but i wanted to keep a western thing

00:33:02.751 --> 00:33:07.491
like uh and i'm taking credit for this idea so at one point people started um.

00:33:08.333 --> 00:33:12.033
I think it was one of the Orlando ADCCs. We had some of our like white belt girls competing.

00:33:12.393 --> 00:33:15.153
And I'd always been joking about how I just hadn't gotten a chance to get a

00:33:15.153 --> 00:33:18.433
first place medal yet under high noon, how I wanted to wear like a cowboy hat as first place.

00:33:18.633 --> 00:33:21.213
So we made her do it. And then it just turned into a thing that we kept making

00:33:21.213 --> 00:33:24.273
people like wear the cowboy hat at first place.

00:33:24.613 --> 00:33:27.553
That's awesome. Yeah. That was just kind of hilarious. Keep doing that.

00:33:27.613 --> 00:33:30.273
That rules. No, it was so fun. I remember the, the, I'm jealous.

00:33:30.373 --> 00:33:33.393
I want to wear a cowboy hat. The, the, the, the lady who did it first,

00:33:33.733 --> 00:33:36.073
Steph, um, she was like, well, you got to do it.

00:33:36.133 --> 00:33:41.153
And I was like, I'm trying. I was like, I'm not losing in the finals on purpose.

00:33:42.053 --> 00:33:44.633
Come on now. It's just kind of hard when the other guy doesn't want,

00:33:44.693 --> 00:33:48.153
he gets a vote too. Yeah, it's kind of hard when you're like fighting somebody.

00:33:49.333 --> 00:33:51.913
But yeah, so I wanted to keep it Western themed. I was having trouble,

00:33:52.473 --> 00:33:57.493
like thinking of something that wasn't terrible. We jumped on ChatGBT.

00:33:58.113 --> 00:34:01.493
That was awesome. Like they were bad. Like I've, those were bad.

00:34:02.433 --> 00:34:03.853
I was like getting close to like.

00:34:04.873 --> 00:34:07.813
We've trashed on AI a bunch of times. Yeah, dude. Oh, man. like i

00:34:07.813 --> 00:34:10.613
mean like it's coming it's been i'm not impressed yet but i'm sure i'm

00:34:10.613 --> 00:34:13.473
sure it'll be one day soon it's helpful when you're

00:34:13.473 --> 00:34:16.333
trying to look up like just like facts about

00:34:16.333 --> 00:34:19.213
things well i was gonna say you might really like it when you have to start doing some business

00:34:19.213 --> 00:34:22.033
i already know i need you to build me a business i already

00:34:22.033 --> 00:34:24.873
like it for the business but then i was like anything creative is

00:34:24.873 --> 00:34:27.593
so bad yeah we we've talked about it it's like you have

00:34:27.593 --> 00:34:30.953
to be really good at your queries like you're really specific you'd

00:34:30.953 --> 00:34:33.793
be like really specific and you have to kind of

00:34:33.793 --> 00:34:36.473
know where you want to end up yeah because i remember i

00:34:36.473 --> 00:34:39.293
was like i would just like use like things like fun and

00:34:39.293 --> 00:34:42.233
cool and they start putting fun and cool in the name and i was like no dude

00:34:42.233 --> 00:34:46.633
this is the worst thing uh so i got close to like quick draw at one point and

00:34:46.633 --> 00:34:50.413
then maya came to me and she was like what about lariat and i was like what's

00:34:50.413 --> 00:34:54.433
a lariat and then we like i just kind of ran with another shout out to maya

00:34:54.433 --> 00:34:57.693
another shout out to my she said she should have like copyrighted maybe pay.

00:34:58.944 --> 00:35:04.264
Too late for that too late haha she's like I'm gonna buy all the domains I like

00:35:04.264 --> 00:35:05.524
Marriott that would have been hilarious,

00:35:06.444 --> 00:35:10.044
Marriott's cool you did a good job that's a good one yeah I think it's fun and

00:35:10.044 --> 00:35:14.204
like it's just like just weird enough for people to be like what is that you know what I mean and,

00:35:14.804 --> 00:35:18.884
Lasso Jiu Jitsu is already a well isn't the logo I can pull up the logo but

00:35:18.884 --> 00:35:22.104
isn't the logo like it's like a dude on a horse like throwing out the it's um

00:35:22.104 --> 00:35:26.564
circle like a circle is the rope and then it says like LJJ okay cause I was

00:35:26.564 --> 00:35:28.184
not gonna call it Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

00:35:28.624 --> 00:35:32.064
oh jiu-jitsu i'm not brazilian yeah

00:35:32.064 --> 00:35:34.964
american jiu-jitsu go full this is

00:35:34.964 --> 00:35:38.004
i mean this that's this that's what you're doing yeah i mean like it's

00:35:38.004 --> 00:35:40.804
very man it's extremely boy yeah it's like i salute you

00:35:40.804 --> 00:35:46.104
dude uh like just go full keen and cornelius there you go there you go we're

00:35:46.104 --> 00:35:50.184
not gonna shy away from american vibes here no man why not yeah hardcore patriots

00:35:50.184 --> 00:35:55.624
yeah um but yeah man so that's kind of where the name came from um and i think

00:35:55.624 --> 00:35:58.804
i could do some funny stuff with it Maybe I'll start lassoing people.

00:35:58.804 --> 00:36:00.744
Dude, when you get shirts and- Dragging them off the mat. Get a tank.

00:36:00.864 --> 00:36:02.704
Dude, I'll buy a tank for you. I want a tank. Oh, we'll get you a tank,

00:36:02.704 --> 00:36:03.664
man. I want a tank, dude. We'll get you a tank.

00:36:03.804 --> 00:36:07.324
I got a, you know. I only wear tanks. I got you, man. I got you.

00:36:07.324 --> 00:36:10.764
All right, dude, please. I want one. I want a Lariat tank. We'll get a Lariat tank.

00:36:10.964 --> 00:36:13.684
Cowboy hat. I didn't know to check what you were wearing. You have to get cowboy

00:36:13.684 --> 00:36:15.164
hats. That's a good point. We do have to use cowboy hats. Maybe you give that

00:36:15.164 --> 00:36:15.544
when you promote people.

00:36:15.984 --> 00:36:19.344
Ooh. Colored cowboy hats. All right. Oh, all right.

00:36:19.884 --> 00:36:22.824
Save it for brown and black. Yeah, brown and black.

00:36:23.924 --> 00:36:27.004
A welcome white. You get a welcome one, and then you get one for brown and black.

00:36:27.264 --> 00:36:28.844
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, you could just get a- Blue and purple's wild.

00:36:28.924 --> 00:36:31.684
That would be crazy. It could be a white hat, and then you do the hat bands.

00:36:31.944 --> 00:36:34.804
That's true. You're like the little tassel part. It'd be a little cheaper, too.

00:36:35.144 --> 00:36:38.184
That might be a little less insane than like a blue hat. Yeah,

00:36:38.604 --> 00:36:39.804
there you go. There you go.

00:36:39.964 --> 00:36:43.244
Yeah, because I guess that's an important point. Right now, it is all no-gi.

00:36:43.824 --> 00:36:46.584
Okay, okay. So they're not going to have an actual belt on. Yeah, so

00:36:46.584 --> 00:36:49.684
they probably don't have a belt on i mean look if i gotta give you a belt in

00:36:49.684 --> 00:36:52.604
nogi that's fine that's how you're gonna do it but that might also

00:36:52.604 --> 00:36:55.604
be funnier i'm not gonna give everyone knives yeah i

00:36:55.604 --> 00:36:58.384
mean look it's cool it's cool uh i'm just

00:36:58.384 --> 00:37:01.004
not gonna buy a bunch of knives especially i guess it's sort

00:37:01.004 --> 00:37:04.504
of hand out knives to kids i guess yeah i guess they always get a tough one

00:37:04.504 --> 00:37:07.604
this class you're like here's a full i mean look it's not like naga doesn't

00:37:07.604 --> 00:37:10.404
already do that true every naga you go and

00:37:10.404 --> 00:37:13.184
they're like oh we zip tied the sword and i'm like the kids can open

00:37:13.184 --> 00:37:16.144
a zip tie like i'm like trying to warm up and there's like they're running

00:37:16.144 --> 00:37:18.864
around with an open sword and i'm like how do they get away with that

00:37:18.864 --> 00:37:21.744
this is terrifying yeah i like that they're like but the adults

00:37:21.744 --> 00:37:24.504
can't get swords i'm like all right i want the motherfucking sword yeah i want the sword

00:37:24.504 --> 00:37:27.724
they can they win the they win the ability to

00:37:27.724 --> 00:37:32.584
buy a sword that's true now hold on i have two swords right i don't i don't

00:37:32.584 --> 00:37:36.704
need to win a noggin to buy a samurai sword now i don't know how this happened

00:37:36.704 --> 00:37:40.484
uh i had no when i was teaching at kai's an old student and she was doing adult

00:37:40.484 --> 00:37:43.504
blue belt but i think she did like the absolute in the gear or something and

00:37:43.504 --> 00:37:45.724
then she walked up and she was like just can I have one of those instead and

00:37:45.724 --> 00:37:46.384
they just gave her a sword.

00:37:46.644 --> 00:37:49.164
That's the only time I've seen an adult get a sword and I was like awesome.

00:37:49.164 --> 00:37:51.504
You just have to ask for it. I guess so. Let me get that sword.

00:37:51.684 --> 00:37:54.084
Let's be honest. Is the table worker at Naga really going to be like.

00:37:54.992 --> 00:37:57.912
I mean, maybe, but like, they're probably tired. He's like, I don't give a fuck,

00:37:58.032 --> 00:37:58.812
dude. Yeah, you just take that.

00:37:59.052 --> 00:38:02.092
They don't get paid enough to be like, oh yeah, no, we're really caring about

00:38:02.092 --> 00:38:04.152
who's here. I did this for three registrations.

00:38:04.452 --> 00:38:07.292
They gave me 50 shorts for kids. Dude, speaking of like paid enough and stuff,

00:38:07.392 --> 00:38:09.652
I was at the most recent grappling industries coaching the kids.

00:38:09.812 --> 00:38:12.632
And I was doing New Jersey Open the next day.

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And I knew a bunch of the dudes from Standard were doing it too.

00:38:14.612 --> 00:38:16.512
I get to the grappling industry at 7 a.m.

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They're standing there in ref outfits. I was like, are you guys reffing all

00:38:18.972 --> 00:38:22.552
day and then competing tomorrow? And they're like, yeah, is that a, like, whatever.

00:38:22.912 --> 00:38:25.552
I was like, that should be fine, right? and I was like, I don't know,

00:38:25.672 --> 00:38:28.792
man. You're going to be on your feet for 15 hours. That sounds pretty bad.

00:38:29.232 --> 00:38:32.432
I was like, honestly, that sounds off. Dude, when I went to New Jersey,

00:38:32.692 --> 00:38:36.952
just from being on my feet at the venue for like six hours, I was shot.

00:38:37.092 --> 00:38:41.212
I usually can't sleep before a comp and I don't have any caffeine the day of

00:38:41.212 --> 00:38:44.092
because I'm already pretty amped. I could not stay awake.

00:38:44.712 --> 00:38:47.692
I slammed a monster and then still fell back asleep on the way up.

00:38:48.172 --> 00:38:51.052
In the match, I was like, what am I even doing?

00:38:51.172 --> 00:38:54.232
I was just not awake. that's that competitor grind

00:38:54.232 --> 00:38:57.032
where let's say you're if you're like a full-time competitor and this

00:38:57.032 --> 00:38:59.772
is maybe like some of these guys like they don't have a job

00:38:59.772 --> 00:39:03.012
yeah they're like i gotta get a gig get

00:39:03.012 --> 00:39:06.052
paid a little bit i drove up to jersey or whatever i'm gonna spend whatever

00:39:06.052 --> 00:39:09.212
money on like a hotel and some yeah yeah gas station

00:39:09.212 --> 00:39:12.212
food or something like can i at least make a couple bucks yeah

00:39:12.212 --> 00:39:15.012
look all that's a tough grind man all broke fighters and

00:39:15.012 --> 00:39:17.892
grapplers um gas is expensive but

00:39:17.892 --> 00:39:20.992
uber and uber eats is your friend yeah as as like

00:39:20.992 --> 00:39:23.792
i did dude i i checked the other day especially during like covid

00:39:23.792 --> 00:39:26.572
and then like while i was just like a broke fighter i had like i have

00:39:26.572 --> 00:39:29.352
like 3 500 deliveries on uber eats yeah i

00:39:29.352 --> 00:39:32.292
was like geez i did a lot but yeah dude it's it's like gotta do

00:39:32.292 --> 00:39:35.132
gotta do what you gotta do also like i you know you come home you're like oh

00:39:35.132 --> 00:39:38.872
i'm so tired i was driving around in my car listening to music and podcasts

00:39:38.872 --> 00:39:47.272
dropping food off it's not when i initially started uh got into mma and jiu-jitsu

00:39:47.272 --> 00:39:49.492
full-time so like when my initial.

00:39:50.152 --> 00:39:52.932
Go at it there next door to the gym

00:39:52.932 --> 00:39:55.592
i was training at they had like one of

00:39:55.592 --> 00:39:58.412
those party rental places like the places that do

00:39:58.412 --> 00:40:01.132
like the inflatable stuff so we

00:40:01.132 --> 00:40:04.072
would most of the fighters worked for them

00:40:04.072 --> 00:40:07.472
and so we'd go and like run these like crazy we'd

00:40:07.472 --> 00:40:10.392
go like you know basically run the you know set up set

00:40:10.392 --> 00:40:14.512
up these inflatables or like run like the uh the mechanical

00:40:14.512 --> 00:40:18.132
bowl for like these little carnivals or

00:40:18.132 --> 00:40:24.292
and stuff like that and we would then like clean these things fucking awful

00:40:24.292 --> 00:40:29.112
job but it was you're super active you get paid really well i think they were

00:40:29.112 --> 00:40:35.252
paying us like 35 an hour which is fucking great that's insane um but the job

00:40:35.252 --> 00:40:36.832
was hard as shit and you have to drive around a.

00:40:38.573 --> 00:40:43.253
But then they would also give us, they would have us, instead of flipping tires,

00:40:43.673 --> 00:40:45.393
we would flip the inflatables.

00:40:45.453 --> 00:40:48.673
So they would pull the inflatables out for us, for all the fighters,

00:40:48.693 --> 00:40:51.793
for our conditioning, set them up in the parking lot, and we would just fucking

00:40:51.793 --> 00:40:56.653
flip these giant, those things are heavy as shit, dude. Tractor tires are light comparatively.

00:40:56.973 --> 00:41:02.433
It's fucking crazy. But yeah, that was like the first fighter job I had.

00:41:02.953 --> 00:41:07.993
So I get that. Uber Eats would have been pretty good. I think I hopped on Uber Eats because I like...

00:41:09.033 --> 00:41:11.673
Um i was a personal trainer and then i was like maybe i wanted to

00:41:11.673 --> 00:41:14.293
like do full-time fighting for a little bit but again it was amateur so i

00:41:14.293 --> 00:41:17.013
wasn't making any money off of it um and then i was just like

00:41:17.013 --> 00:41:20.633
what can i do in my free time that doesn't take up at

00:41:20.633 --> 00:41:24.413
least most evenings and like random times

00:41:24.413 --> 00:41:27.253
during the day i got a trainer that just ended up popping up although ironically the

00:41:27.253 --> 00:41:30.533
best time to do uber eats is like when people are hungry lunch and evening but

00:41:30.533 --> 00:41:33.553
you know i ended working out um that was like a lifesaver during

00:41:33.553 --> 00:41:36.433
covid man mainly just didn't have to like be in the house i just like go

00:41:36.433 --> 00:41:39.273
and like move around move around just drop

00:41:39.273 --> 00:41:42.033
off food gas was like a dollar so like the

00:41:42.033 --> 00:41:45.173
return was pretty nice i like that we should

00:41:45.173 --> 00:41:49.853
wrap up soon-ish so he has time to get to get moving yeah

00:41:49.853 --> 00:41:52.693
um any other do you

00:41:52.693 --> 00:41:55.673
have do you have any other do you have any things coming up outside of your

00:41:55.673 --> 00:41:59.953
gym opening up um i'm doing some it's like legacy submission grappling series

00:41:59.953 --> 00:42:07.013
up in maryland in like three weeks it's like a 16 man cji rules but no pit bracket

00:42:07.013 --> 00:42:12.433
um i'm a little bummed about no pit but it is what it is uh i like the three by fives like i um.

00:42:13.520 --> 00:42:17.380
I never know how I feel about scoring in jiu-jitsu. It's always fucked up.

00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:21.280
I kind of like, and I understand when you get judges and subjective scoring

00:42:21.280 --> 00:42:23.640
can be a little funky. But I kind of like the no points.

00:42:24.580 --> 00:42:28.720
And if it's a close match on points, it's a close match with judges.

00:42:28.720 --> 00:42:30.120
It's always going to be a little dicey.

00:42:30.320 --> 00:42:34.240
But with no points, you fall down, you get knocked over, whatever.

00:42:34.400 --> 00:42:37.240
As long as you're kind of whooping the other dude, you'll probably get the nod.

00:42:37.420 --> 00:42:40.460
So I kind of like that. So I like the idea of just like 10 nines.

00:42:40.840 --> 00:42:44.900
Does any part of you want to say you like the IBJF scoring? I don't hate it.

00:42:45.060 --> 00:42:46.220
I don't hate it either. I don't hate it.

00:42:46.520 --> 00:42:52.100
If it's actually done the way it's supposed to be done, just do it the way it's written.

00:42:52.120 --> 00:42:55.060
It's not a bad format. If it was implemented correctly.

00:42:55.420 --> 00:42:58.760
Implemented correctly being the key. It wouldn't be bad. Yeah. You know?

00:42:59.140 --> 00:43:03.380
However, there's a lot of weird advantages and points getting thrown out here

00:43:03.380 --> 00:43:05.480
and there where you're like, I don't know how this works.

00:43:05.520 --> 00:43:10.000
I do not like the advantages portion of it, but like, as far as a general,

00:43:10.960 --> 00:43:12.420
scoring system is not too bad.

00:43:12.580 --> 00:43:14.940
However, I do think you should, there's things I think you should get points

00:43:14.940 --> 00:43:16.920
for that they don't have, but that's fine.

00:43:17.200 --> 00:43:20.320
We won't go into that. I think the advantage thing is pretty funny because like,

00:43:21.200 --> 00:43:22.980
look, I make a lot of faces when I'm rolling.

00:43:23.080 --> 00:43:25.780
If you get close to a sub, I'm going to be like, so they're going to get an

00:43:25.780 --> 00:43:27.860
advantage for it. Where then like, if I go and you're just like,

00:43:28.720 --> 00:43:31.720
the ref's going to be like, I don't know. No advantage. Didn't look like it was close.

00:43:32.000 --> 00:43:34.840
He obviously wasn't worried. I didn't look hurt. Ankle, like in New Jersey,

00:43:35.040 --> 00:43:37.320
I mean, this was not like, this was not even a real submission.

00:43:37.380 --> 00:43:38.520
I just went for like a random Estima.

00:43:40.460 --> 00:43:40.800
That way.

00:43:41.859 --> 00:43:45.739
No advantage for me. Because he just laughed. They were just like,

00:43:45.799 --> 00:43:48.739
advantage for him. You obviously were close to being submitted, sir. You were scared.

00:43:49.899 --> 00:43:52.599
It's like a weird pain tolerance. Yeah, I don't know what happened there,

00:43:52.659 --> 00:43:56.499
dude. Because I didn't tap to that, but then I got a knee bar and it was like a immediate tap.

00:43:57.239 --> 00:44:00.339
But you had already broken his leg. I guess so. Well, then he got up and walked

00:44:00.339 --> 00:44:03.099
and I was like, what is going on? Dude, it was insane. I remember.

00:44:03.299 --> 00:44:04.319
You just have a lot of air in there.

00:44:05.379 --> 00:44:10.339
Dude, I have air ankle pops. This was like. And I was like, okay.

00:44:10.339 --> 00:44:12.739
Oh, I did something. Are you good?

00:44:12.979 --> 00:44:15.939
Maybe it's like RJ just doesn't care about his limbs.

00:44:16.239 --> 00:44:20.559
I mean, look, I don't tap the leg locks. Look, I used to just let my ankles

00:44:20.559 --> 00:44:22.019
just like explode in ankle locks.

00:44:22.179 --> 00:44:25.439
Like I remember I did one of the oldest like PGF trials.

00:44:25.619 --> 00:44:28.759
Like back in the day, it was like PGF like three or four. I drove down to Alabama.

00:44:29.399 --> 00:44:33.139
Second guy, second match, dude staring at me, doing like heel hook grips from

00:44:33.139 --> 00:44:35.279
across the mat just to his own forearms and looking at me.

00:44:35.379 --> 00:44:36.919
And I was like, this guy. I wonder what he's going to go for.

00:44:36.939 --> 00:44:37.719
This guy's very strange.

00:44:38.179 --> 00:44:41.879
And he just rips an ankle lock. and my ankle pops and I'm like, well, I'm already here.

00:44:42.139 --> 00:44:45.479
So I just let him crank on it until I got like my own heel. But I was afterwards,

00:44:45.699 --> 00:44:48.159
my ankle was pretty fucked up. Yeah.

00:44:49.879 --> 00:44:53.719
All right. Where can we find Larry at? So it's Larry at Jiu Jitsu on Instagram.

00:44:54.239 --> 00:44:57.279
It's Larry at JJ.com for the website.

00:44:57.819 --> 00:44:58.979
And that's about it right now.

00:44:59.299 --> 00:45:02.259
If you want to sign up, go to the website or just hit me up and DM me.

00:45:02.359 --> 00:45:05.699
I'll send you the links either on the Larry at Jiu Jitsu. Well,

00:45:05.779 --> 00:45:09.039
probably preferably on a Larry at Jiu Jitsu Instagram. But if you message me on mine.

00:45:09.619 --> 00:45:12.979
And what's yours grappler pj cool so

00:45:12.979 --> 00:45:15.879
we'll put all those in the in the show notes too so you guys can

00:45:15.879 --> 00:45:18.959
very easily copy and paste as well so awesome

00:45:18.959 --> 00:45:24.339
man yeah i'm i'm excited i'm excited it's been like you know i get nervous pretty

00:45:24.339 --> 00:45:26.819
easily so i've been like a little freaked out about it but i think i think it'll

00:45:26.819 --> 00:45:30.339
go well i'm like looking forward to like teaching adults again getting my own

00:45:30.339 --> 00:45:34.479
thing going and then again like down the road having like my own like comp team

00:45:34.479 --> 00:45:38.519
i can travel with because i do i love coaching like i get nervous for coaching but like,

00:45:39.459 --> 00:45:44.119
Never have I gone to like a tournament all day and coached and been like, I regretted doing that.

00:45:44.159 --> 00:45:48.419
Yeah, I love like, that's so much fun for me. Win or lose, just having them like go out and like.

00:45:49.295 --> 00:45:51.635
Like watch people do what we've worked on and stuff. You're going to do awesome,

00:45:51.635 --> 00:45:57.195
man. So before we fully wrap up here, that gives me a question.

00:45:57.675 --> 00:46:03.295
Are you more excited about one of your students winning or like if you win something

00:46:03.295 --> 00:46:06.495
huge, like which one is like peak for you?

00:46:06.935 --> 00:46:09.715
Probably students winning, man. That's what I thought you were going to say.

00:46:10.095 --> 00:46:14.295
Yeah, I like even like this tournament coming up, I could like win $1,000 and

00:46:14.295 --> 00:46:17.675
I bet that if I won, I'll probably just be like deadpan,

00:46:18.115 --> 00:46:22.155
upset about how I did it like that's me pretty much every time I win a match

00:46:22.155 --> 00:46:26.675
I'm never satisfied that sucked or just like overly negative who knows but I'm

00:46:26.675 --> 00:46:29.135
just like oh that sucked and then I watch it back and I was like all right maybe

00:46:29.135 --> 00:46:33.355
maybe it was fine yeah uh yeah man I just like watching other people succeed

00:46:33.355 --> 00:46:37.575
and stuff um and it's cool too like watching someone like.

00:46:38.155 --> 00:46:40.815
Do something in the room and you're like not sure how it goes and the other

00:46:40.815 --> 00:46:43.695
go out and they just like perform really well I think that's always awesome to see yeah

00:46:43.695 --> 00:46:46.755
yeah awesome awesome man cool

00:46:46.755 --> 00:46:49.855
thank you caleb for coming out that was fighters drinking

00:46:49.855 --> 00:46:52.675
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00:46:52.675 --> 00:46:55.755
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00:46:55.755 --> 00:46:58.955
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00:46:58.955 --> 00:47:01.835
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00:47:01.835 --> 00:47:04.435
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00:47:04.435 --> 00:47:07.415
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00:47:16.575 --> 00:47:19.655
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00:47:19.655 --> 00:47:22.775
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00:47:26.475 --> 00:47:31.035
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00:47:31.035 --> 00:47:38.435
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00:47:38.435 --> 00:47:43.295
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00:47:43.295 --> 00:47:44.835
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00:47:49.175 --> 00:47:52.935
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00:47:52.935 --> 00:47:59.415
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