May 20, 2025

(Ep 12) From Fat to Fighter: Khaldon Roukie's MMA Journey

(Ep 12) From Fat to Fighter: Khaldon Roukie's MMA Journey
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(Ep 12) From Fat to Fighter: Khaldon Roukie's MMA Journey
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In this episode of Fighters Drinking Coffee, hosts Mike and Scott sit down with Khaldon Roukie, an MMA fighter, coach, and the son of a butcher; based out of District Martial Arts in Arlington, Virginia. Khaldon shares his inspiring transformation journey, highlighting his entry into the world of mixed martial arts in 2018, dropping 40 pounds, and becoming a dedicated athlete. He talks about his experience of being motivated by the haters and playing the heel.

They discuss his unique path from studying political science and Islamic studies to becoming an MMA fighter, and how martial arts unexpectedly became a significant part of his life. Khaldon also opens up about the challenges of coaching versus competing, the goals for his MMA and Jiu-Jitsu career, and his ambitions to go pro and fight in high-profile tournaments like the UFC and IBJJF.

Find Khaldon on Instagram: @sonofabutcher_mma

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00:04 - Introduction to Khal Doon Ruki

02:45 - Embracing the Role of a Heel

07:42 - From Hobbyist to Competitor

12:27 - The Struggles of Fighting

22:40 - Aiming for Jiu-Jitsu Tournaments

29:34 - Building Relationships with Promotions

30:30 - Aspirations for the Future

32:54 - Advice for the Youth

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Welcome back to Fighters Drinking Coffee with Mike and Scott.

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Today we have Khal Doon Ruki, the son of a butcher, MMA fighter,

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coach, lover boy, out of District Martial Arts in Arlington, Virginia.

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Thanks for having me on, Sensor. Yeah, you're welcome. You're welcome.

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Let's see, where should we start? Khal Doon, you started training in 2018 with us?

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Yeah, I think it was March, February, March 2018.

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Okay. I got to look at the system. Yeah. It's a little short.

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We have a, there's a before and after picture that my business partner,

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Sam, was really excited about posting when Caldeon first showed up.

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He's a little pudgy, a little overweight. Not like, I don't want to say overweight. No, I was fat. Okay.

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Let's go with that. I was fat, man. He was kind of, he was a little fat.

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And maybe was it last year or like recently there was like a picture of

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him after like he started working with like a nutritionist who

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and you know he'd been training for like six or

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seven years at this point too so it's like consistent full-time dedicated training

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plus clean diet and caldoon's like abs are all jacked and so like sam was all

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fired i was like we're posting this side by side like wait fat caldoon to athlete

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caldoon it was like it's been a journey yeah it has been it was like,

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I think from then to that picture, it was like 75 pounds or something. Damn, was it really?

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Yeah, it was like that. I mean, I don't actually weigh 155, but I know. Well, yeah, I get it.

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But that picture, you were 75 pounds down from 30. So it's like 35 to 40.

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Total since joining DMA, I think I lost at least 40 pounds. 45 maybe. Dang. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Look at you now, man. You're just pure beef. Come to DMA for your lost needs. Yeah, definitely.

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Triple A wag here. We'll have to snag that picture you threw.

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That's actually a good idea.

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We'll get a cool action shot. That'll be a good promo shot. He's got a lot of

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good action shots. We'll grab all of them.

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Hal Doon's a dandy in front of the camera. He likes the glitz and glamour of

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it. To everyone's disdain.

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Everyone's disgust. To the haters. To the haters. The camera's on me.

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I get excited. I don't know. Would you say you're more fueled by the haters? You like being a heel.

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I like being a heel. I like getting booed.

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Hell yeah. My dream is, like, hopefully one day, Chalma, get to the UFC.

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I want to get, like, booed in New Jersey or something.

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Like, get booed somewhere where they, like, they got a tough crowd.

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That's the goal. Oh, yeah.

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No, I don't hate that goal. That's a good goal. You certainly could do that.

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We could get you booed right now. We could get you booed right now.

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Boo me right now. We could get you booed.

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Yeah, all right. I like that. Well,

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maybe tomorrow we'll get the whole tournament. We'll work up the crowd.

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Actually it makes me fight better and then because like the the local promotions

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like i don't know if it's just me i don't think it's just me i've seen people

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get booed other fighters um i feel like i don't get that much hate really like

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at the shows i think one fight,

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because the dude that i was fighting a lot of his friends and family were there,

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um so i i recall them distinctly like booing me as i was walking out,

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But most of the time, I feel like I'm always getting cheers and support.

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They love you. They booed you?

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My third fight. My third fight. I remember getting booed. And I liked it.

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I was like, well, this is awesome. This is so cool. You're like, oh, these people care.

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I really got to them. It's kind of like you're fighting everybody.

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Yeah. So it makes you, I don't know, when you win, it just feels like so much

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more of an accomplishment.

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Sure. Yeah, you get to throw that middle finger on people booing you.

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I get it. so you thrive on hate i thrive on it i don't mind it yeah yeah i take

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hate and success over being loved while being successful any day of the week

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okay but yeah hate plus success as long as yeah i don't want to i mean i don't

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want to lose and get hated.

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Okay okay all right so

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give give people your background background fighting

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background back just yeah give a little

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bit who's khal doon where does he come from what is he man i'm

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khal doon's a lebanese guy who grew up in canada

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scott always laughs at that because he knows i grew up in canada i just like

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the way he did that he goes khal doon's a lebanese guy no because i said khal

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doon i'm not and then people are gonna be like look he's changing calvin calvin

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calhoun i call him calhoun sometimes depends how american i want to be that

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day i got my cowboy hat on it's Calhoun, sorry.

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I got him a cowboy hat. Sometimes you got to blend in. When he got his citizenship,

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I got him a cowboy hat. I've never seen him wear it.

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No, we have a bunch of great pictures together. Sure, that's okay.

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One time. Yeah, that's true.

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All right, fact. Events where it's appropriate for me. That's fine.

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But yeah, I mean, I grew up in Canada. I spent my whole life there in a small,

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like medium-sized city. And...

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Lived there, studied there, my family, uh, and their, their family business is out there.

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Um, shout it out. Yeah. Lizzie's meets right now.

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My brothers are all running it. They're doing a great job taking it over, uh, uh, from my dad.

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So, uh, you know, they're running the shop and in the same community that we grew up in.

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So it's kind of a community staple and I worked there growing

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up uh up until i was about 20 21

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maybe um finished undergrad

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moved out to the united states

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for grad school and then uh started working

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here i found dma and i kind of just picked it up as

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a hobby initially like i was like oh i want to learn how to

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box and then i got more into mma and i

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was like well let me try out a gym and so i saw dma and i

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came in actually scott was like the first person i really met

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i don't we've talked about this i don't know if you remember i yes um

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like the moment i actually remember it still and i

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was like whoa these guys are like really cool because i was expecting to walk into like

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a gym where it's just going to be like a killer yeah exactly like what are you

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doing here what do you want you know um but no they were really welcoming and

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um i was like well maybe i'll try a little bit of muay thai that evolved into

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maybe i'll do a smoker to maybe i'll take one or two fights and here we are

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here we are no it's addicting yeah it

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kind of snowballed in its own way. It's, uh, it's really interesting.

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So I had a great time training and learning.

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And then I loved coaching and from that got into fighting and now fighting has

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become kind of an obsession.

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So that's what led me here. Uh, so I'm going to fight amateur and hopefully

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by the end of this year, uh, pro career will start.

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Awesome. So that was kind of like, uh, you, you came down here for school,

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you know, I was like initially, but then you, it just kind of,

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this was a thing that kind of showed up and now it's become a big part of your

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life. like martial arts and all of that.

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So that's, that's awesome. Yeah, it was a total accident, right?

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Like my family and friends back home, Scott and I talk about this all the time.

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People just don't get it.

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It's such, maybe it's not just my community where I grew up,

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but it's such an unorthodox thing considering where I was.

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Like I studied political, I got two master's degrees, political science and Islamic studies.

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So, and then I wanted to work in Middle East policy.

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I ended up getting a job for the government or multiple jobs.

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It's like I worked for different contractors for years.

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Um, and then to pivot into like full-time athlete, coach, fighter,

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it's such a strange, completely unrelated pivot.

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It's like people were surprised by it, but they weren't at the same time because

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they're like, okay, well, you've always had a couple of screws loose anyways.

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So, you know, of course you ended up picking like the most violent thing possible.

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Yeah. It's, uh, it was like, uh, it was a good accident, you know,

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definitely made my life a lot more difficult in some ways, but a lot better in most other ways.

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Yeah i totally get that so it's

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awesome um so you say

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you're coaching at dma's specific uh program

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you know this but uh like is there a specific program

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that you are like spearheading and kind

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of that's like becoming your baby right now or

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yeah i mean right now shane and i are running the

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mma program together so just we we came

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together and we sort of wanted to revamp how people

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learn MMA because you know it's cool a lot

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of gyms you go to even like when we were

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first starting you have like a general idea of different things

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that you want to learn but if you don't have skills and at least a little bit

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of skill in each discipline it's tough to bridge it all together right so right

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now our main focus on the MMA program at DMA is to really teach people who are

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starting to learn all those different disciplines because people come in and

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that's what they want to do, right?

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They want to try a little bit of jujitsu and Muay Thai and then they want to

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know how to put it together.

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We're there to kind of take all their fundamental knowledge and help them bridge

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it together and help them put it together, whether it's striking to grappling

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or grappling back to stand-up.

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So that's something that him and I are taking a lot of time to really improve

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on and build up at the gym.

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What he's talking about, he and Shane teach a lot of the classes for MMA on

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the competition side with Charles. Yeah.

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Charles' leadership for like the competitors because I think to his point,

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um, the difference between.

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This is maybe kind of like gym culture stuff, I guess, if you want to think of it that way.

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Maybe a little gym business too. Most people who come in, I mean, we've met a few people.

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Even when you showed up, you want to immediately give me a fight.

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You definitely are like that now.

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But that kind of grew organically as you got comfortable and more competitive

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and more skilled, right?

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But we'll occasionally have some dudes come in who are like,

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I'm ready to fight right now.

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It's so funny. But for the most part, 99% of people will show up.

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They just want to train. yeah they're like i can call

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them civilians if you want to think of it that way they want to train they don't

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want to get blasted in the head um there are

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exceptions uh but then there's the other side of

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it too that he's also super involved in like that's what i was alluding to with with

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you shane other dudes on the team charles overseeing

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it on the competitor side too yeah which like

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that is well i mean you can speak for yourself and i feel

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like that's also where you're pretty intimately involved yeah i

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mean you know i i'm definitely a lot more involved especially under

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you know charles's leadership when it comes to the mma stuff i

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mean him scott tone for

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example these are guys that i've had in my in my corner forever um and so uh

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you know helping out i kind of play more of a support role when it comes to

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that stuff uh like scott said most of the people who come into the gym even

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where i started myself are like hobbyists or people who want to learn.

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A technique specifically or maybe they

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just want to learn self-defense or just be in shape or they're big fans of

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the ufc whatever it is um so you

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know for the classes that we offer that's a good way to introduce people into

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it um and then we help each other sort

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of facilitate and build up towards competition

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um it's not for everybody we've had guys who and

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this is no dig at anyone specifically um we've

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had people who tried it and were like yeah i'm good

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it was one and done and it's just too much work because of

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all the other things that are involved with fighting that people just aren't

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aware about right um and then

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we've had people who are like they walk in on their first day and

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they're like i want to be your new champion we're like oh brother how about slow

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it down let's teach you how to i don't show up to like three classes

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a week for three months let's hit pads yeah let's

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make sure that you actually know what you're doing teach you what a job is or

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something well like look dude but to your point it's a commitment

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yeah and it's not for everybody long term yeah you know

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like it's i mean you know this yeah different to respect like

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it requires a lot of dedication not

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everyone's gonna do that and like you said some people like there'll be

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dudes kind of come and go in these communities it's normal um people's lives

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change priorities change you'll have people who fight for a while they feel

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like they've checked that box they maybe want to keep training or sometimes

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they don't want to train at all and just they migrate out and then the dudes

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who are kind of like lifers you know.

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I mean, to be honest with you, I couldn't do it myself.

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Like I couldn't not fight until my body literally gets up on me, but I kind of get it.

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It's so grueling and it's just such a cruel sport.

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Aside from just the physical side of things, that's not even the worst part,

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like getting punched in the face or beat up or, you know what I mean?

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I'll cut up. That's whatever you get hit. You go to the hospital,

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you come home, whatever, you're fine.

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You'll recover after some time. it's the like the you

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know the weight cutting the mental game people on

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your case i wish we talk about this all the time right like

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you have people who are so close to you maybe their

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intention is good maybe it's not you know and they

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they start to tear you down while you're you know preparing

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to literally fight someone like a gladiator you know

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um and so all of

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that just putting it together you know the the psychological aspect

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of it the physical changes that your body goes through the stress

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and um you know on top of the pain

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that's probably going to be inflicted on you uh it's

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tough man it's tough to commit to uh it's fun as a sport you know you could

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be like killing it for a year and then boom your shoulder pops out you know

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now you have to learn how to manage your life with that while still pursuing

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the hobby and so but i think that when i say part of my life has gotten better from that,

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I think learning how to overcome those obstacles and challenges,

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that's something that people don't see.

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They see like MMA fighter, oh, he's aggressive, he's this, he's that,

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maybe he's a meathead, whatever.

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But you really overcome a lot of spiritual and mental blocks that.

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You otherwise wouldn't have been able to because the conditions are

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so extreme yeah you're tested yeah you're tested

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i mean i i always used to look at the when

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back when i was still fighting like i always used to look at

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that as the fight was like the fun reward at the end

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of all the other shit right um so i

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totally get that yeah like a lot of people don't understand like

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how grueling like the training the camp the

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weight cut like all those things on top of each other

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really are and like also outside of

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just that what that the effect that has on like your personal life

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and so i there's it's definitely not

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for the the weak the weak heart too like

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i don't blame anyone who like tries it out it's

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like nah man this isn't for me at all like or people

00:14:20.997 --> 00:14:24.157
who don't want to do it once they get into it like i get it yeah um

00:14:24.157 --> 00:14:26.837
so all right i want to

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make sure i'm understanding when you're talking about the uh kind of

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back to like the mma program so do

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you have kind of like the competitor side and then you also have

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like a the civilian side like we were saying like the

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the non-competitive sides you have like mma classes

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that someone can just walk in and start taking like

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part of the regular curriculum yeah we're a bit picky on it now shane and i

00:14:49.017 --> 00:14:53.177
um pickier than we used to be and that's primarily because we want people to

00:14:53.177 --> 00:14:57.017
actually learn right so we're really encouraging people to go learn the other

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disciplines like my jiu-jitsu in mma can't get better unless I practice my jujitsu separately.

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Same thing with my boxing, my Muay Thai, wrestling, you name it, right?

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At least to no fundamental things so you can defend or attack with them.

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So we have those regular classes. You can come to the gym, you train.

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You just take the classes in each session. And now we have a curriculum that we've built,

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So we have a schedule and different topics that we're going to be teaching every day.

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So they get exposed to all aspects of MMA, whether that's grappling, wrestling, striking.

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Are you guys syncing up on that too? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We have like a full monthly

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curriculum that we follow.

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We don't go into like the specific things that we're going to be working with.

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Yeah, like a theme or something. Yeah, but there's a theme of the day.

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Or a theme of the day, sorry.

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If we find that some people are struggling with certain things,

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we'll put more emphasis and time on that. We need to kind of adapt it.

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We've seen a much better increase in people's ability to apply these things

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because we specifically focus on it.

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So maybe like Monday is a striking day and we're working the 1-1-2 into the shots, right?

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Or there's another striking day maybe, you know, five weeks later and we're

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teaching people how to strike to defend against takedowns.

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So that's kind of how it is. And then when it comes to the fight team stuff,

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that's, uh, you know, Charles is kind of the, he oversees it.

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He's the overseer of that whole fight team.

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Right. So, you know, we all support each other. So I might, I have been helping

00:16:29.229 --> 00:16:31.369
people with their weight cuts cause I'm really good at weight cutting.

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So, uh, you know, I take a lot more responsibility when it comes to that stuff,

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supporting the weight cut, keeping an eye on them, helping them with their, uh, protocol.

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Um, just spending a lot of time learning how to

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do it for different weight classes and different um categories but

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um you know the the fight team

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is kind of its own separate thing because it also encompasses muay

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thai uh amateur boxers um people who are going to be competing in super fights

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so we have like different sides to that and then the way i look at it is like

00:17:06.169 --> 00:17:09.489
you have different pillars of the gym right so like scott head jiu-jitsu coach

00:17:09.489 --> 00:17:13.189
all the competitors for jiu-jitsu kind of go under that track right and then

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you have mma's one track.

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And Muay Thai is kind of within the fight team track, but it's separate.

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So the preparation is entirely different than how I would prepare for a fight as an MMA fight.

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But basically what he's saying is like, if people are throwing punches, fight team.

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And they train together. Yeah. They have a group of guys that are consistently

00:17:32.877 --> 00:17:37.037
getting together to help each other prepare for various, and it's a pretty active team. Yeah.

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We've had dudes in the last couple of years. It was MMA almost exclusively for a couple of years.

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And now we have some dudes doing boxing and kickboxing fights.

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So it's cool to see that side expand.

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Now, let me ask you this, dudes. You've been doing a lot of jiu-jitsu. like people who

00:17:54.237 --> 00:17:57.197
don't know people don't know people who don't know khaledun competes

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a lot in jiu-jitsu too brother brother he's competing

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tomorrow i tell people i'm not a jiu-jitsu guy but he is i

00:18:03.797 --> 00:18:06.877
am a jiu-jitsu guy it was like an identity crisis thing i greets there

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was like i remember me and charles and um probably

00:18:10.017 --> 00:18:12.957
some of the like maybe even mark some like the other guy like on the wrestling side

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like just the grappling coaches talking about him before

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or after whatever one of the fights we were like yo man this guy needs to start

00:18:20.177 --> 00:18:24.197
like you're a grappler yeah because he wasn't in his head for a long time yeah

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you said you start you came to do muay thai and boxing he was a boxer like you'd

00:18:28.077 --> 00:18:33.437
box before you came to us so the thing is is you have to understand dma's,

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wrestlers are so good always since i've started i was always the worst in the

00:18:38.437 --> 00:18:42.557
room when i came to grappling and i had no experience like you have what yeah

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like shane wrestled his whole life um mark mark no you know no uh you know charles

00:18:49.177 --> 00:18:52.157
wait not the school of jones but still he wrestles and And then you,

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you're a black belt in jujitsu.

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So like everyone had wrestling over me, so I was just getting my.

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I'm talking like for years, just smashed constantly.

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And, uh, you know, coach Perdomo takes over with my training when it comes to

00:19:06.425 --> 00:19:08.545
the grappling side of things and we're working independently.

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And then he like revamped my skillset, but in my head, even though I'm winning

00:19:14.125 --> 00:19:18.265
tournaments, I'm getting gold medals, um, competing like basically,

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yeah. In between each fight.

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So if I fight three, four times a year, whatever it is, I'm competing in jujitsu

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tournaments between each fight. That's at least three.

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It's about the same. maybe more sometimes maybe more sometimes yeah two

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two to four maybe sometimes more jiu-jitsu tournaments

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a year um in my head in the fights it just wasn't there and then every time

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i have grappled though or just said like screw it this person's a better wrestler

00:19:40.465 --> 00:19:43.285
than me i'm gonna wrestle or i'm gonna grapple anyways i've always done better

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so uh yeah i mean i am competing tomorrow copa virginia uh this is my first

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time competing in the advanced division.

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You're going for that 500 bucks i'm gonna go for the 500 bucks yeah

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i'm buying everyone dinner hopefully when this releases

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we'll be able to tell people that you won 500 yeah fingers crossed

00:20:01.765 --> 00:20:04.825
we'll take our cut it was not a big cut i

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saw the bracket uh and we're joking around because we

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uh you know i know someone in in one of my brackets um i

00:20:11.065 --> 00:20:13.985
always do multiple divisions so i've always done that i

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like to push my gas tank i like the challenge so i'll be

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doing my weight class in the absolute division which at this

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level I know is gonna be tough right because I could be one up against black

00:20:22.845 --> 00:20:28.045
belts or brown belts but there are black boats and there are so they're there

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but I just get excited by that honestly the more I feel like the odds are against

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me the more I'm like pumped to get in there it's raining me and that's the problem

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yeah but it's manageable.

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Yeah, and you know, it's, it'll be good. It'll be fun. Yeah.

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Enjoy it. Not a lot, but always. Yeah.

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He's going to do good. Oh, yeah. He's going to be very good.

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Well, and you're cutting weight for that right now too, right?

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Yeah, I got a few pounds. Just a little bit. Yeah. I mean, compared to,

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my weight cuts are always big.

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So compared to the usual, this is like. Nothing. Nah. It's just a nap,

00:21:00.619 --> 00:21:01.719
right? Yeah. Sleep it off.

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And maybe one hot bath. There you go. A lot of crying.

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That'll get somewhat. Brother, I'll cry. off two pounds no problem just go listen

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to the booze a little bit yeah i get some tears out i have a playlist it's my

00:21:16.199 --> 00:21:20.339
secret my secret oh yeah i'll listen i want to know what this is,

00:21:21.839 --> 00:21:25.039
i feel like a lot of people who know him listening want to know what that list

00:21:25.039 --> 00:21:30.359
is too i know post a spotify playlist well probably not that's for him do a

00:21:30.359 --> 00:21:40.179
caldean uh curated spotify cry list yeah ladies old lady lady yeah no no no no no no the softer side.

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We can leave that for another conversation another another episode

00:21:44.819 --> 00:21:47.859
that'll be a bonus that'll be bonus content that could be exclusive uh

00:21:47.859 --> 00:21:51.339
patreon content there you go um that's cool

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man um so you're competing do you have other any

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other jiu-jitsu tournaments you're eyeing right now just

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to stay on that top i mean i'm looking around i'm

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i'm really like when it comes down to it we're we

00:22:03.619 --> 00:22:07.099
have a structure right i gotta get permission from the guys so

00:22:07.099 --> 00:22:09.999
from scott in this case right to get uh into these

00:22:09.999 --> 00:22:12.819
other tournaments like i want to do ibjjf i really want to do that this

00:22:12.819 --> 00:22:19.919
year um i would like to do some type of adcc tournament um i've never done naga

00:22:19.919 --> 00:22:23.719
i've never done other ones but i'd like to do like different types of jiu-jitsu

00:22:23.719 --> 00:22:29.199
tournaments because i do ibjjf rules mostly and i've done like double or single

00:22:29.199 --> 00:22:32.259
elimination copa i mean dimitri's always taking care of me, yeah.

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I do them the most just because they're the closest and if I could get my reps

00:22:36.299 --> 00:22:40.159
in. But this year, I really want to get into those other tournaments.

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I'd also like to do a super fight.

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I'm like begging for a super fight. We're going to, we'll work something out.

00:22:44.959 --> 00:22:49.539
We'll work something out. I feel like it's that. You, you, I'll say this.

00:22:49.659 --> 00:22:51.239
I feel like you would do good in super fights.

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You, you are. Yeah. You're made for super fights. I fought in front of crowds before, right?

00:22:55.859 --> 00:22:59.039
But jiu-jitsu is a little bit more daunting to me because I've,

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maybe it's just because I've never done it.

00:23:00.519 --> 00:23:03.139
But the idea of all eyes on you with like a

00:23:03.139 --> 00:23:05.839
limited discipline that you're working with you have to

00:23:05.839 --> 00:23:08.679
be like on top of it perfect skill set

00:23:08.679 --> 00:23:11.719
um in mma like i don't have to worry about somebody pulling

00:23:11.719 --> 00:23:14.499
a leg attack on me you know from a

00:23:14.499 --> 00:23:18.099
guard position punch him yeah like it's

00:23:18.099 --> 00:23:21.059
as you should it could happen but i don't know you know most of

00:23:21.059 --> 00:23:24.179
the time they're the second you're on your back you're like oh yeah there's

00:23:24.179 --> 00:23:26.839
more answers to it because you don't only that's not the

00:23:26.839 --> 00:23:29.859
only thing that they have to worry about right yeah so but

00:23:29.859 --> 00:23:33.059
with jujitsu you gotta like specialist or you know somebody who's

00:23:33.059 --> 00:23:35.759
like a guard specialist or you know you got so

00:23:35.759 --> 00:23:38.979
many other factors that are like so niche that you have to worry about that's

00:23:38.979 --> 00:23:41.239
the type of stuff that i'm like that's a big challenge for me because we're

00:23:41.239 --> 00:23:44.759
so top like we have a lot of good top pressure we have guys who have all types

00:23:44.759 --> 00:23:48.359
of skill sets and disciplines um but when you're training with the same dudes

00:23:48.359 --> 00:23:53.139
over and over again i learned from my coaches so my style is like an amalgamation

00:23:53.139 --> 00:23:55.099
of everything that they've built up with me, right?

00:23:57.665 --> 00:24:00.965
Seeing those different looks is so fun how do you feel coaching

00:24:00.965 --> 00:24:04.185
versus competing jiu-jitsu or well either

00:24:04.185 --> 00:24:07.405
because i know we've talked about like you you've begun recently coaching

00:24:07.405 --> 00:24:11.045
a lot of the fights brother coaching and

00:24:11.045 --> 00:24:13.825
i've said this to you and you always you know you're like it's not

00:24:13.825 --> 00:24:16.705
as big deal as you make it in your head coaching is way more

00:24:16.705 --> 00:24:19.625
stressful to me than fighting especially when you have an invest

00:24:19.625 --> 00:24:23.025
like a vested interest in the person that you're cornering

00:24:23.025 --> 00:24:26.645
or coaching um like i don't

00:24:26.645 --> 00:24:30.045
get nervous when i fight ever i mean nerves relatively

00:24:30.045 --> 00:24:33.245
speaking but i don't worry about anything you know

00:24:33.245 --> 00:24:36.565
i see my coaches they're with me they tell me what to do i shut my brain off

00:24:36.565 --> 00:24:41.185
i go out there i fight whatever happens happens um but when you're coaching

00:24:41.185 --> 00:24:46.245
it's like you're not in control anymore yeah all you can do is just you know

00:24:46.245 --> 00:24:49.945
make calls advise and And you guys always do a good job with that.

00:24:50.025 --> 00:24:52.125
So I try to copy that when I coach.

00:24:52.665 --> 00:24:55.245
But I do always get a little bit more nervous because it's like,

00:24:55.325 --> 00:24:56.725
if I'm fighting, I can do this.

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Do you find it a little frustrating when you say something and they don't do it?

00:25:02.105 --> 00:25:06.765
Like I do. You don't even look at it? I do. And there's only so much you can

00:25:06.765 --> 00:25:07.885
control when it comes down to it.

00:25:07.965 --> 00:25:12.805
Even me, my coaches have told me to do stuff and I haven't done it in my fights.

00:25:13.685 --> 00:25:17.165
Or in my tournaments. Scott's cornered me for, I don't even know how many.

00:25:17.165 --> 00:25:19.885
I have like 50 jujitsu matches or something, right?

00:25:20.045 --> 00:25:22.845
So like Scott's basically quartered me for almost every single one.

00:25:23.925 --> 00:25:27.485
And I'm sure there are tons of times where you were, I actually remember specific

00:25:27.485 --> 00:25:29.505
times where you've told me to do stuff and I didn't do it.

00:25:29.625 --> 00:25:34.785
So it's frustrating for sure being on that side of things because you just want

00:25:34.785 --> 00:25:36.825
to like jump in there yourself and do it.

00:25:37.225 --> 00:25:43.045
But it's a different skill set that I realized and actually has helped my confidence

00:25:43.045 --> 00:25:45.905
and my mindset as a fighter and as a competitor,

00:25:46.425 --> 00:25:49.525
because you're kind of on both sides of it uh yeah i

00:25:49.525 --> 00:25:52.805
was gonna ask you about that so i'm glad you bring that up like do you

00:25:52.805 --> 00:25:57.245
what is there something specific do you think it changed about like the way

00:25:57.245 --> 00:26:01.025
that you compete now that you've been on the like from being on the coaching

00:26:01.025 --> 00:26:04.805
side of it like the way that you coach and then seeing kind of how the reaction

00:26:04.805 --> 00:26:08.645
is there's something that you do on your end now that you're competing uh a

00:26:08.645 --> 00:26:11.225
little bit differently because you know but from that coaching side?

00:26:11.465 --> 00:26:18.285
Yeah, I mean, so the one thing I've noticed, I'll never forget my first walkout.

00:26:20.065 --> 00:26:23.025
Shout out to Rocket Combat Sports, my favorite promotion in there.

00:26:23.545 --> 00:26:26.885
These guys always take care of me, so they're awesome.

00:26:27.105 --> 00:26:31.925
They gave me my debut at AMI and I did my walkout.

00:26:32.005 --> 00:26:38.625
We must have like 100 people from DMA there and maybe 200 people in this high school gym, whatever.

00:26:39.624 --> 00:26:43.684
And dude, I thought I was like into Apex or something.

00:26:43.864 --> 00:26:47.364
I thought there were thousands of people and I'm hearing my name get chanted.

00:26:47.364 --> 00:26:50.504
And I'm like, I can't hear a word these guys are telling me,

00:26:50.564 --> 00:26:53.544
by the way, for the first round, like I didn't hear anything.

00:26:54.604 --> 00:26:58.524
And that got a little bit better, but I distinctly remember my first three fights,

00:26:58.604 --> 00:26:59.964
because that was before I started coaching.

00:27:00.264 --> 00:27:04.984
I didn't really hear them as clearly as I, like I do now.

00:27:05.084 --> 00:27:07.604
Now I hear everything these guys say to me. And I'm pretty sure it has to do

00:27:07.604 --> 00:27:08.904
with the fact that I've been on both sides.

00:27:09.624 --> 00:27:12.504
So I can, I kind of block out the crowd. I don't even know what's there,

00:27:12.604 --> 00:27:16.504
man. Like, I do showboat and stuff because I know people are watching.

00:27:16.704 --> 00:27:20.604
Like, I try to, you know, play the role. Some of that's good, man.

00:27:20.904 --> 00:27:23.424
People, like, that's why, I think that's why, like, K-Zilla,

00:27:23.584 --> 00:27:25.104
that's why Rocket likes you, dude. Maybe.

00:27:25.424 --> 00:27:28.164
They do. I like to make a little bit of a show. Yeah, dude. These guys don't

00:27:28.164 --> 00:27:32.264
like it when I'm not ahead. I'm not ahead. I'm sorry. Well, yeah, we want you to win.

00:27:33.164 --> 00:27:36.544
First and foremost, it's a balancing act. Yeah. Calhoun.

00:27:37.044 --> 00:27:39.924
Yeah, it's a balancing act. You're right. i like i like to

00:27:39.924 --> 00:27:42.724
i like sometimes i'm not uh i never

00:27:42.724 --> 00:27:45.984
had an older brother because i'm the oldest in my family but with these

00:27:45.984 --> 00:27:49.104
guys are kind of like my older brothers yeah i feel that that

00:27:49.104 --> 00:27:51.804
itch to like to troll i don't

00:27:51.804 --> 00:27:54.864
know but when i showbo it kind of gives me the the

00:27:54.864 --> 00:27:57.604
the that delusional confidence that i think

00:27:57.604 --> 00:28:00.844
it really goes the extra mile it's just knowing when it's

00:28:00.844 --> 00:28:03.784
like the time and place to do it right oh i totally get that

00:28:03.784 --> 00:28:07.844
dude well dude we talked about this in your one of our episodes recently about

00:28:07.844 --> 00:28:12.184
uh copa elite where mike was talking about how he was like i gotta put on a

00:28:12.184 --> 00:28:17.244
show too yeah sometimes you gotta put on a show yeah sometimes you feel like

00:28:17.244 --> 00:28:21.524
it's starting you can feel like a little bit of that like the crowd losing interest

00:28:21.524 --> 00:28:22.704
like there's definitely,

00:28:23.384 --> 00:28:27.244
you can feel like kind of that turn like you want to win the crowd he's a fan

00:28:27.244 --> 00:28:30.904
favorites you invited back he's a fan favorite when we go to the uh when i go to the,

00:28:31.460 --> 00:28:34.880
I guess mostly Rocket, but also maybe Cage's, like, the staff.

00:28:34.940 --> 00:28:38.760
Everyone loves Cal down there. Yeah. Oh, yeah. The crowd. He's got fans in the crowd.

00:28:39.060 --> 00:28:43.640
If you put on a show, like, win or lose, they want you back on the card for the next one.

00:28:43.720 --> 00:28:46.660
I think it's a little bit of a sex appeal he puts out there.

00:28:46.780 --> 00:28:48.620
He starts flexing on the camera. Brother.

00:28:49.320 --> 00:28:52.840
Calvin over here. We start flirting with ring girl. Calvin. Yeah,

00:28:52.980 --> 00:28:55.060
I mean, maybe there's a little bit of ring girl flirting going on.

00:28:55.100 --> 00:28:58.040
The son of a butcher. No, brother. Me?

00:28:59.060 --> 00:29:02.480
Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. Just like having fun.

00:29:02.960 --> 00:29:05.820
You know, having fun's good. We're just having some fun. I'm making sure everyone

00:29:05.820 --> 00:29:08.580
gets attention. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, that's important. You got to pay attention

00:29:08.580 --> 00:29:10.440
to everyone. All I'm saying is they remember him. Yeah.

00:29:11.120 --> 00:29:13.840
The promotions always take care of me in the area too. Like win or lose.

00:29:14.820 --> 00:29:19.020
The promoters are always good to me. They've always been very professional.

00:29:21.260 --> 00:29:25.140
They definitely, like, you can tell the difference when a promoter is like trying

00:29:25.140 --> 00:29:29.020
to take care of you or showing you respect versus when they just don't care. You know?

00:29:29.240 --> 00:29:32.480
Yeah. Um, as long as you show up, you make weight. I've never missed weight.

00:29:32.520 --> 00:29:34.260
I show up. I try to put on a show.

00:29:34.940 --> 00:29:37.800
Um, you know, regardless of what's going on in my personal life,

00:29:37.860 --> 00:29:43.360
I try to make that a priority and, uh, you know, it ends up helping build those relationships.

00:29:43.560 --> 00:29:46.900
It's, uh, it makes it makes the whole experience a little bit more fun when

00:29:46.900 --> 00:29:52.140
you just aren't like stiff and rigid and quiet, you know, some people are fine

00:29:52.140 --> 00:29:53.840
like that. It's just not how I am.

00:29:54.260 --> 00:29:56.900
Well, I think that's kind of been like, there's a little bit of a

00:29:56.900 --> 00:29:59.980
recurring theme when we talked about this kind of stuff on the show

00:29:59.980 --> 00:30:02.960
and like professionalism doing right

00:30:02.960 --> 00:30:05.720
by the promotion they tend to do right by you after that so like

00:30:05.720 --> 00:30:13.040
it definitely rings true so I mean that comes up a lot uh-huh um so I know you're

00:30:13.040 --> 00:30:17.640
running up on some on time here do you have anything but let's go over aspirations

00:30:17.640 --> 00:30:21.420
for the year like what's some things like goals that you have for the end of

00:30:21.520 --> 00:30:23.600
year or kind of, you know,

00:30:24.040 --> 00:30:27.640
coming up, it could be early next year, whatever, but, um, you know,

00:30:27.840 --> 00:30:30.000
what's, what's next for the son of a butchering?

00:30:30.360 --> 00:30:34.020
Well, you know, I'm coming off of a loss right now.

00:30:34.420 --> 00:30:39.100
Uh, so I'm going to be spending the next, the short-term goal is to build on

00:30:39.100 --> 00:30:43.160
these, um, deficiencies in my game or skill sets that I need to expand on.

00:30:43.280 --> 00:30:45.000
Right. So I'm in the training arc right now.

00:30:45.560 --> 00:30:49.780
Um, but really by the end of the year, wrap up my amateur career,

00:30:49.800 --> 00:30:51.080
I'd like to get maybe two more.

00:30:51.360 --> 00:30:53.760
I've got eight fights now. I want to make it about ten.

00:30:55.380 --> 00:30:59.260
And I'll continue to compete locally.

00:30:59.940 --> 00:31:06.980
But I think by 2026, that's where I'd like to get at least an IBJJF tournament in.

00:31:07.600 --> 00:31:11.000
So something a little bit more high-level. And I,

00:31:11.700 --> 00:31:16.660
begin my pro career around that same time. So debut as a pro fighter and.

00:31:17.640 --> 00:31:19.540
You know, work towards that UFC dream.

00:31:19.880 --> 00:31:24.020
Oh yeah. Build up the skills, work on some jujitsu, get some competitions.

00:31:24.420 --> 00:31:27.040
Yeah. We're going to schedule out some MMA later in the year.

00:31:27.300 --> 00:31:28.740
Yeah. We've talked about it with Charles.

00:31:29.080 --> 00:31:33.920
Yeah. We had a plan. We had a plan. We got a plan. Work on the skills a lot. That's for all of us.

00:31:34.500 --> 00:31:37.920
What, what did you add in since, since the loss?

00:31:38.060 --> 00:31:41.260
Like what things are you like adding in, focusing

00:31:41.260 --> 00:31:43.980
on are there any like new things that you've added

00:31:43.980 --> 00:31:46.780
to your kind of your training to get to the

00:31:46.780 --> 00:31:49.740
next like to try to i don't know build up and

00:31:49.740 --> 00:31:52.700
fill in some of those gaps yeah you know honestly for

00:31:52.700 --> 00:31:57.820
me you know if i can speak freely on this it's really just my mental state as

00:31:57.820 --> 00:32:01.040
a competitor right um for the longest time i was the most junior guy in the

00:32:01.040 --> 00:32:07.000
room right and i'm not anymore um but i think my mindset has always had that

00:32:07.000 --> 00:32:10.720
kind of doubt that comes with being the most junior guy in the room,

00:32:10.860 --> 00:32:12.280
but I've got tons of experience.

00:32:12.420 --> 00:32:16.180
I've got, uh, you know, more experience than most in the area now.

00:32:16.480 --> 00:32:21.640
And I think it's really developing the mindset that comes with competition that,

00:32:21.780 --> 00:32:23.780
you know, I have these skills, I just have to implement them.

00:32:23.920 --> 00:32:27.120
I know what the right decisions are to do. I just have to believe in the training that I.

00:32:27.967 --> 00:32:32.627
And really do that. And that's more reps with my strong points,

00:32:32.747 --> 00:32:35.347
with the places that I'm weak in.

00:32:35.927 --> 00:32:39.047
So it's going to be a lot more grappling, a lot more focus on what I'm good

00:32:39.047 --> 00:32:40.807
at, which is, you know, my jiu-jitsu.

00:32:41.427 --> 00:32:45.427
And your wrestling. My wrestling, being more aggressive and offensive with it.

00:32:45.547 --> 00:32:49.627
And then when it comes to my striking, you know, just improving my defense,

00:32:49.827 --> 00:32:54.287
keeping my hands up, throwing, being more calculated, and then bridging it all together.

00:32:54.287 --> 00:32:57.487
I think that's going to be the big thing because I could do these things,

00:32:57.487 --> 00:33:00.247
but uh you know i have to believe in my ability to

00:33:00.247 --> 00:33:03.307
put it all together he's got a strength conditioning coach he's got

00:33:03.307 --> 00:33:06.247
a very good strength conditioning coach now asim yeah so

00:33:06.247 --> 00:33:09.287
he's putting a lot of extra inputs new data

00:33:09.287 --> 00:33:12.707
new new new skill sets are being exercised yeah

00:33:12.707 --> 00:33:17.707
that's a good point because awesome he's um he's helping me in an area that

00:33:17.707 --> 00:33:21.227
i was really deficient in which i just didn't you know lifting was always more

00:33:21.227 --> 00:33:26.327
of a chore for me but he's made it in a way that it's cater towards an mma fight

00:33:26.327 --> 00:33:30.987
right and so you know with that building up that side of things and

00:33:31.287 --> 00:33:34.267
using you know that coaching and applying

00:33:34.267 --> 00:33:37.567
it into my my routine and my schedule you know

00:33:37.567 --> 00:33:41.387
my goals that's awesome man any i had

00:33:41.387 --> 00:33:44.147
a weird question for you but i know he'll have something to say you got

00:33:44.147 --> 00:33:47.207
any recommendations for the youth what about the youth yeah

00:33:47.207 --> 00:33:50.627
i said look at his face look at his body language i knew he was like i got this

00:33:50.627 --> 00:33:55.587
thing oh i got some words for the coming brother as a community icon and the

00:33:55.587 --> 00:34:00.787
youth being in charge of the youth and and many facets of life uh no i volunteer

00:34:00.787 --> 00:34:06.227
with some youth and i yeah i got a lot of young guys he's coach.

00:34:07.247 --> 00:34:12.807
I think for young people you know they all when you're young you have zero sense

00:34:12.807 --> 00:34:16.647
of responsibility or, you know, zero sense of caution in your head, right?

00:34:16.887 --> 00:34:22.247
So if I were to talk to myself as a teenager, you know, and tell myself to get

00:34:22.247 --> 00:34:26.327
into this stuff, I would just tell them to take their time.

00:34:27.616 --> 00:34:31.816
Don't look for crazy fights when you're 16. Like, develop your skills.

00:34:33.436 --> 00:34:36.796
Spend a lot of time with wrestling. I think that's a big thing in America because

00:34:36.796 --> 00:34:41.256
I grew up in Canada where wrestling is not that big or it's not as big as it is here.

00:34:41.676 --> 00:34:46.536
Spend a lot of time in your younger years wrestling, doing jiu-jitsu,

00:34:46.876 --> 00:34:50.096
protecting your head, and, you know, concussions will come later.

00:34:50.216 --> 00:34:51.536
We're all going to get CTE eventually.

00:34:53.496 --> 00:34:57.656
But, you know, I think spending time there and then building into all the striking

00:34:57.656 --> 00:35:02.536
sports and the competitions when you're entering into your 20s.

00:35:03.356 --> 00:35:07.136
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